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William Gupta's picture
day game

Last week I wrote about how to get good at night game quickly. This week I am writing my guide for efficient day game.

Day game is a lot easier than night game. This is due to the fact that interactions aren’t nearly as long and there aren’t nearly as many distractions.

The problem a lot of guys face with day game is, first and foremost, approach anxiety and poor strategy. Approach anxiety never fully goes away, but the one thing that helps me with it is the phrase “Think Do” – anything I think I should do, I do. This gets me out of my head and approaching quickly, but despite that, approach anxiety will still be a demon you face for as long as you’re in the game.

This article is mainly concerned with approaching day game with an efficient strategy. This is so you can get the girls you want in a realistic time frame.

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Anonymous's picture

I love the park - that's where I'm at my best. I'm loud and social naturally, and I've found the park is the best vibe for me as it matches the closest. I try to get girls playing Frisbee and the like. I've done well in coffee shops too, but I agree that you have to tone it down in that interaction.

Also - agreed - street game is not efficient. It happens, but there's a lot more friction involved. Better to focus your game where you get the most returns.

Cheers.

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William Gupta's picture

Thanks for reading man! Let me know if you have any other spots that I should check out for day game, it sounds like we are pretty similar.

-Gupta

Anonymous's picture

Hi William,

I have a question. How do you approach when a girl is not alone during the day? What to do with her friend(s)?

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William Gupta's picture

1. If she is with just one other friend, approach her, then acknowledge the friend. Flirt with both of them but show more focus to the one you want.

2. If she is in a group, acknowledge the group but focus on her if your nervous tell the group that your nervous and if they could cut you a little slack as you hit on their friend. That usually disarms them and in some case makes them root for you. Other ways are to go indirect for the group and then make yourself part of the group while hitting on the girl. I had a day game make out with a girl at a restaurant by doing this.

So either, acknowledge you are hitting on her while disarming the group or become part of the group.

3. If she is with a parent, run it like the group by disarming the mom by expressing that you are hitting on her and this takes a lot of courage. If she is with her Dad, be straight up and shake his hand but then focus on the girl.

Hope this helps

Gupta

Gem's picture

Hey Will,

Great article! I was going to ask this question on the boards but I thought I’d ask you here because it seems more pertinent to the article and you would likely know what to fix.

I’ve done fairly well results wise in day game in the past (I turned 21 recently, so now am beginning to get into night game and have to start getting good at that); however, somewhere where I’ve found that I get great reactions but not results from is the gym.

I have been lifting for about 3 years and am a serious lifter 4-5 days a week will be at the gym. I am aggressive and train hard and can lift pretty heavy, and I get a lot of girls noticing me. With girls I’ve met at the gym however I’ve noticed my numbers just always tend to flake. Many of these are girls are clearly quite attracted to me, some of them have even orbited near me and I just situationally calibratedly began talking to them then.

I’ve also set up the date from beforehand and stuff but then have had my numbers flake. I’d say some 15-20 numbers throughout the years have gone like this at the gym where I met an attractive girl, talked set up a date, got the number and then I texted or called them later on and got no reply.

I have theories of where I’m messing up and why my gym numbers are flaking. I think I’ve been breaking number 3 and number 6 from your list. Breaking number 3 by talking a little bit seeing that they're attracted and then saying well I have to get back to my workout but we should meet sometime and get food (setting a date fine but not spending enough time initially talking; come to think of it the few gym numbers that have led to dates for me have been ones where I talked for a while longer like 5-8 minutes or so).

The other could be number 6 which is maybe touching and being generally a bit more direct too quickly. This contributes from being in the gym already being confident and aggressive and then further fro having adrenaline and testosterone levels peaked and being really direct from them (maybe coming off that way to the girl). I think I could better balance this and that that would help in my gym game.

Do you have any ideas of what I could fix or work on to help me here? My problem here with gym game bugs me amusingly because I am so close to having my gym numbers and dates work and begin to pull through for me!! I am so close here (as opposed to night game where I find I am a noob and have my look and a few other things not working well to my favor, and have a lot to work on).

I feel that I am close and that if I could fix a few touch mistakes my gym game could be much further and rewarding.

Thanks and cheers,

Gem

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William Gupta's picture

Great to talk to a fellow lifter. I spend a lot of time in the gym as well and I also notice a lot of beautiful ladies in the gym but I have a low conversion rate at the gym as well. My buddy who does really well with girls and has a high conversion rate from numbers to dates, this is because he never rushes his pick up. He takes his time.

This is hard for me to do because I want to get back to my sets but I think that this is his key. So try having longer sets or making the interactions as personal as possible really quick with some humor, so she can experience your personality quickly.

Either way, keep it up and keep me posted! I will be trying my theory out this week and will post with an update.

-Gupta

Sam2's picture

William,

I am glad that once again I am able to share a personal experience which works perfectly as a case-in-point for another of your articles. Just yesterday, before I read your article unfortunately, I made a seemingly very good approach on the street to a very hot girl at about 6.30 in the afternoon.

Pencil tight skirt, tight summer shirt, and high heels made her rich curves explode. While men around her where elbowing each other, I simply “thought and did” exactly like you prescribe.

She was on the phone. Without even saying hello, I approach shoulder to shoulder, look straight at her and command her invitingly: “Hung up the phone, I want to talk to you”. Her face lights up, she smiles enthusiastically from the get-go and immediately says to the person on the line: “I will call back later”. I lead her a few steps to the side of the pavement so as “to not interfere with the pedestrians”. She followed.

After a 5-minute conversation, I told her I was coming from the other direction only to meet her and that I should go soon. I first asked if she was available for a drink the next days. She says “yes, why not?”. I gave her my phone to put her number and I exited gracefully. The only black spot was that my interaction was short, which makes the case flakable. She didn’t reply to my ice-breaker message. Even if this doesn’t go anywhere, I will still be satisfied because the interaction was very pleasing!

Men, go get them. No excuses.

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William Gupta's picture

This makes me so happy to read!

To think do is one of the biggest keys to getting what you want in game and in life. Keep me posted on your day game progress bro!

-Gupta

Anonymous's picture

Hey Will,

I started doing approaches about 3 months ago and I always avoided going for a high-five with girls as I thought it made me seem like a "nice guy" she'd only want as a friend. Is there a specific way or context you use to high-five a girl?

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William Gupta's picture

What makes you a nice guy is not giving a high five. What makes you a nice guy is not standing up for yourself or not calling a girl out when she's wrong. I actually have a date tonight with a girl I gave a high five to, so don't sweat the small stuff.

Hope this helps

-Gupta

Lithuanian's picture

I approached one girl in a fast food restaurant. I said to her that I thought she is cute and wanted to say hi.

After few minutes she indirectly offered me to meet, but regained her words. But we met once and we're going to a date this weekend (I asked her schedule and she herself offered to meet on saturday evening).

So, I think day game is most effective way to pick up girls. I want to approach in the middle of the street, but don't collect my courage, but I'll do it in coming weeks.

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William Gupta's picture

Awesome about the date. If you see a pretty girl in the street definitely approach her. But there are more efficient places to meet girls than the street, so don't make it your only place that you do pick up.

Best of luck

-Gupta

Anonymous's picture

does it excite a girl when you shift your gaze from her eyes to her lips then back
to her eyes?
Anyway, how do you do this " look at a girl's lips " thing?
I heard it was to prepare for a kiss. anyone can clarify?

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William Gupta's picture

Chase has an article about how to turn her on that might have what you're looking for.

http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-turn-girl-3-tiers-sexual-excitement

-Gupta

Marvin's picture

Hey William,

Great article again! I have a question about picking up girls during sports. I really like athletic girls and do a lot of sport myself, and there are a lot of beautiful girls in the city park where I run or at the pool where I swim.
I find it difficult to get into a good conversation while running, because even when the girl likes me, she wants to keep running and you can't use a lot of touch or eye contact or build any tension while running. Would you recommend to stop her and try a short conversation or just run together and talk?
And what about the pool? I started a conversation with a cute girl last week when she left the pool before she walked to the changing rooms but for me it is a little bit intimidating to use touch when you half naked and you just met her, but maybe it's just because I still have problems to use a lot of touch and have to keep working on that.

Keep going!
Dylan

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William Gupta's picture

For running I would run with her for a bit and when she begins to slow down strike up conversation. Girls who run generally love running and are using as time to think about life.

With the pool just make sure that when you touch her, you touch her all the way. What I mean is don't limply try to touch her, that's creepy if you're going to go for it, commit.

Hope this helps!

-Gupta

Kristian Fabrizio's picture

Should I be direct with them and compliment or should I go imdirectly? If so, what are good openers in both cases?

Anonymous's picture

I don't quite agree with the last part. I tried telling a girl I was nervous to ease up the way i was acting. It didn't go well she instantly began to act aloof, and I lost her attention. I did not think that this would work, if there is any reason you are nervous then that is a sign of lacking of confidence. I am quite upset about the last part you portrayed. But everything else is very helpful, I am impressed. Keep it up.

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William Gupta's picture

One thing that is difficult to grasp is that there is no one thing that will "work" all the time. That's what makes life so much fun. I have said I was nervous more than few times and it has turned out great. I'm glad you are putting this into action and keep up the great work.

Joan Coscubiela's picture

Hi Mr. Gupta,

First of all, thanks for sharing your knowledge. It was really inspiring and I loved the "think do". Definitely a motto to live by.

I'm actually trying to get started at daygaming, but I'm having difficulties in that precisely. I mean, I work 8 hours/day in Barcelona and I don't exactly know where I should go to get started (facing approach anxiety, getting used at cold approaching, etc.). Of course, this post really helps at that.

However, I must recognise that #7 really confuses me, because I've always thought, and Chase (I think) and other daygamers have said that many times, that the street is the place to go and it's where you can reap the most benefits of direct game. In other words, I always thought of the street being the "dojo" of daygame.

So my question is: if you discourage people from spending hours doing daygame on the streets, where rookie people like me, who want to get good at daygame and direct approach (because that's the kind of guy I want to become), should go?

In Barcelona there aren't many malls where young women gather around (and the malls that exist aren't near my place), not many parks, and I feel that spending hours doing approaches in the streets (for instance, in Paseo de Gracia, similar to the Parisian Champs-Elysées, or in other downtown quartiers; if you have never gone to Bcn, I really recommend you to go!) than just sitting in a coffee shop waiting for the cute girls to arrive.

I will then add a second question: in order to get really good at daygame, where do you recommend to go practicing? what's the "dojo of daygame" according to you?

And congrats to both you and Chase, this site is really great!! It motivates a lot (and as Chase said, it's time to take action!)

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William Gupta's picture

So I wish I could go back and edit this because lately I have been cleaning up on the street. Do street game, but have somewhere where you are going. So let's say your goal is to walk and see Sagrada Basilica, take the train and get off four kilometers from the church and walk. While walking there, aim to talk with every girl you find attractive on the way. Don't try and stop them in the middle of the street walk with them. Make sure if you can go for an instant date you do. Remember your goal is to get to Sagrada Basilica but that's not really the goal, your goal is talk to as many beautiful girls as you can on the way to the church.

I love Barcelona, and cannot wait to go back. Also hit up the beach man, there will be so many Scandanavian girls making their way to the beach for the winter.

I wish you the best man!

Cowboy's picture

William thanks for the article! I used to do a lot of night game but since work doesn't allow a lot of time for that I'm shifting more into the day game. Read this guide applied these tactics 2 days after reading this and I got a date tonight after 1 year experience from night game. I appreciate this. I am appreciated day game more since I started off with the challenge night game often brings. Chase changed my success in night game and you are gonna be the change for success in my day game. Cheers brother!

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