What are you focused on when you’re talking to girls? Is it:
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Looking out for cues and responding to signals?
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Active listening to understand what she’s saying and feed it back to her?
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Using good tactics and making the right moves to progress things forward?
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Worrying about what she thinks of you and whether you are doing it right?
These are all useful things to focus on when you are learning them.
They are also things you will be aware of in the back of your head even once you have learned them.
However, guys who are good don’t have any of these things as primary foci with girls. Instead, these are background processes occurring in their heads, keeping an eye on their interactions for them, calibrating on the fly.
What do skilled, cool guys focus on when they talk to girls?
That’s what we’ll talk about today.
That, and how to emulate such guys, so you can get similar results to them too.
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