Guide to Choosing the Right Pickup Tactics (Avoid These Pitfalls)
Aug 1, 2025
Not all pickup tactics work for everyone—some even backfire. Learn how to choose the right material for your style and avoid painful mistakes.
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Aug 1, 2025
Not all pickup tactics work for everyone—some even backfire. Learn how to choose the right material for your style and avoid painful mistakes.
The man who excels with women is the one who possesses enough very positive reference experiences with them. These SHAPE his mind & behavior toward women!
Learning to pick up and seduce girls takes time. You will sometimes need to choose: whether to take easy results now OR focus on making major progress.
Lots of guys get into pick up artistry imagining they’ll sleep with tons of women. Most drop out before that point. How long does the average guy stay in?
Everybody wants to learn to do better. Yet some of the ways we can think about learning actually impede our progress – even while we THINK they HELP!
As you analyze your outings once you are out of the field, don’t forget these additional variables: the social frame of the venue, your mood, and more.
After a night (or day) out in the field, you need to review your outing to see what worked – and didn’t. Focus on these key variables for the biggest improvements.
When you go out to pick up girls, sometimes you succeed, and sometimes you fail. How do you extract the lessons from that? One way is via post-field diagnostics.
How hard is it to cold approach girls and get success with them – REALLY? Is it impossible… very difficult… or actually easier than many believe?
Many day game novices make mistakenly focus JUST on day game… without raising their general social skills up too. This is a big no-no for day game success!
Cold approaching women you don’t know is hard. If you lack the required social skills and mentality to make it work, you’ll burn out of it quick.
New to day game? It may seem scary to begin. All those girls rushing around during day… And no natural, unawkward way to meet them! Fortunately, it’s easier to begin than it seems…
Men with Asperger’s struggle with “social confusion.” Others often behave in ways that seem irrational to them. Why is this so, and is there anything they can do?
Without a map you’ll almost never reach an unfamiliar destination. If you want to succeed with women, you need a little navigation to get there.
