How to Not Give a Fuck What People Think About You
Apr 10, 2025
There’s nobody cooler than the guy who just does not give a fuck what anyone thinks. Yet to become Mr. IDGAF, the road is long, and the journey arduous.
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Apr 10, 2025
There’s nobody cooler than the guy who just does not give a fuck what anyone thinks. Yet to become Mr. IDGAF, the road is long, and the journey arduous.
In this interview with Girls Chase founder Chase Amante, Mike Chief discusses being loved by women, polyamory, picking up girls as a short, Asian, introverted man, and more.
Men fear doing many things with girls: approaching them, chatting them up, asking them out, making moves. Yet the more you do each, the less scary it gets.
A mental priority of men and women alike is to preserve internal consistency. Threats to that cause resistance – both in the women you want, and in you, yourself.
Women don't know your insecurities or care about them. So be free. Let the past go, and go get the girl.
You must fail before you succeed at any great skill. This is especially true for getting girls, a skill so many men fear failing at so greatly.
Your biggest barrier to attracting women is not what you think it is. If you keep saying “I can’t get laid because I am [blank],” you may need to rewire your inner game.
Flow state is the miraculous place where everything works and makes you feel like a boss. What does it take to access flow state and make it your long-term ally?
Why do you think she’s out of your league? Is it because she really is, or is it because you’ve put her there for no good reason?
Fear can be useful to avoid being eaten by lions. But when it comes to approaching women and living life to its fullest, you must learn how to be fearless.
“Fake it till you make it” is not a disingenuous strategy. You design who you want to be and adopt traits you want to have, until you become your desired self.
Fear is useful but also a killer of dreams if you give it control. A fearless man is one who understands fear and endeavors to overcome it through practice.
You want her, but you don’t think you’re good enough. Well, you’re probably right. But there is a solution! It’s not quick. But it’s doable, and it will work.
Girls like confident men, everyone knows this. Yet the key to how to be confident is a careful mixture of success + direction in a specific romantic way.
