Tactics Tuesdays: Prefacing Your Ask Out with a Soft Close
Apr 8, 2025
Raise your rate of girls saying “yes” to dates with you by asking them out with a soft close. Be smoother, get more dates, & experience fewer rejections!
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Apr 8, 2025
Raise your rate of girls saying “yes” to dates with you by asking them out with a soft close. Be smoother, get more dates, & experience fewer rejections!
It's easier to get a girl to agree to a date or to go to your place if what you suggest feels familiar to her. But how do you trigger that feeling of familiarity? By seeding your suggestion first.
How do you meet a girl and get a date from a group or event... without standing around not knowing whom to talk to or what to do?
Want a fun way to ask girls out? Try the time bridge. The time bridge lets you take anything a girl likes, and turn it into a date.
When a girl asks you out, it should seem obvious what to do: say yes, right? Yet guys botch this one surprisingly often. Here’s how not to.
To get a girlfriend in 2 weeks, you pick your target, go where she is, be flirty and social, and go for the close. But that’s just Step 1.
The key to setting up successful dates is sticking to the plan. That is: get numbers, make contact, intro the date, pick the spot, and deal with flakes – in that order.
What do you do if she doesn't have time? Find out here – plus read a number of other contingency plans you can use with women you like.
How to ask out a girl with ease? Use these 8 surefire tools: hit the "high note", make it a "small deal" ask, never give up, and 5 more.
