Tactics Tuesdays: Involvement Testing (for Stories & Gambits)
Oct 7, 2025
Leverage the simple-to-use tactic of “involvement testing” to ensure your conversations are always mutually engaging – and never, ever boring.
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Oct 7, 2025
Leverage the simple-to-use tactic of “involvement testing” to ensure your conversations are always mutually engaging – and never, ever boring.
You’re talking to a girl about sex, and she gets into it and takes the lead role. Great! She’s into the topic. Don’t steal her thunder – but don’t leave her in charge too long, either.
Sex stories get you & a woman discussing sex in a big (+ intimate) way. But can they be too much? Discover when they work best – and just how to use them.
Discover how to use playful “trouble frames” to create a flirtatious, engaging dynamic and turn a simple conversation into a compelling connection.
Just because she doesn’t start ripping her clothes off (or yours) is not a sign of a sex talk failure. Sex talk aims at something more crucial for the seduction than this.
Not every girl will eat up your sex talk. What do you do when girls give a neutral or negative response? Persist, move on, or – change it up. It depends!
Men’s conversations with women turn boring or platonic when key attractive elements are missing. See 4 common ‘boring convo’ mistakes + how to fix them.
You’re not going to hit the right note out of the gate every time as a sex talk trainee. So what do you do if you sex talk misses? Recalibrate, change it up, and try again.
Sex talk is powerful. But each sex talk gambit has different uses. Here’s how to choose which sex talk gambits to use for what seduction situations.
Discover ‘piggyback screens’—a smooth way to weave screening questions into early conversations, making attraction feel natural and effortless.
Why do women tease men more in groups but act softer one-on-one? Discover the psychology behind female flirting—and how to respond like a pro.
Master the art of flirting using improv comedy’s ‘Yes, and…’ rule! Turn awkward moments into attraction and make her laugh effortlessly.
Sex doesn’t begin in the bedroom. It starts long before. That’s what you’ll tell girls in the Diachronic Sex Gambit — and get them imagining themselves in bed with you soon after.
You need trust to get new women into bed. Many men try to build trust once, quickly, and move on. With this gambit, you’ll build deeper trust – over time.
