Nov 7, 2025
Whether she truly believes it or she’s putting on a front, a girl acting prudish presents an obstacle to hooking up. How do you get her to lower her sexual drawbridge? With sex talk!
“How old are you?” gives a lot of guys that deer-in-the-headlights look the instant girls hit them with it. But you have 4 different ways to respond.
Want to flip a girl from on-the-fence about you to coming over ready to smash? Then hit the 3 ‘DTF triggers’: sexual authority, non-judgment, & not being needy.
Leverage the simple-to-use tactic of “involvement testing” to ensure your conversations are always mutually engaging – and never, ever boring.
Make use of this charming and effective technique to overcome the “but we’re strangers!” objection and secure the date, kiss, or phone number from a girl.
“Most women don’t know the difference between seducing a man and a woman.” Tell her this to intrigue her, bait her, & suck her right into sex talk.
It’s great when girls get into the sex talk. But you still need to be in charge. Here’s how to use values elicitation to keep your hand on the wheel.
You’re talking to a girl about sex, and she gets into it and takes the lead role. Great! She’s into the topic. Don’t steal her thunder – but don’t leave her in charge too long, either.
Sex stories get you & a woman discussing sex in a big (+ intimate) way. But can they be too much? Discover when they work best – and just how to use them.
Discover how to use playful “trouble frames” to create a flirtatious, engaging dynamic and turn a simple conversation into a compelling connection.
Just because she doesn’t start ripping her clothes off (or yours) is not a sign of a sex talk failure. Sex talk aims at something more crucial for the seduction than this.
Not every girl will eat up your sex talk. What do you do when girls give a neutral or negative response? Persist, move on, or – change it up. It depends!
Men’s conversations with women turn boring or platonic when key attractive elements are missing. See 4 common ‘boring convo’ mistakes + how to fix them.
You’re not going to hit the right note out of the gate every time as a sex talk trainee. So what do you do if you sex talk misses? Recalibrate, change it up, and try again.
