Tactics Tuesdays: Self- vs. Other-Pointing
Mar 11, 2025
Pointing at yourself or others as you set emotional frames anchors those emotions to the pointee. Can you use this in seduction? You absolutely can…
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Mar 11, 2025
Pointing at yourself or others as you set emotional frames anchors those emotions to the pointee. Can you use this in seduction? You absolutely can…
Pacing and leading is a potent neurolinguistic programming (NLP) technique used to first match someone’s state, then lead her. It’s extremely useful in dating and seduction.
What do you do when you’re talking to a new girl and things get emotional? You pace her reality. That means you match her emotions… to an extent.
Doing well with NLP means having the mindset of a social experimentalist: picking desired outcomes, honing in on effective paths to them, and being adaptable if they don’t work as expected.
Anchoring is a very useful way of recalling emotions, setting expectations, and prompting women you like to take action. But how does it work?
