Tactics Tuesdays: Prefacing
Feb 18, 2025
Prefacing lets you approach women or issues in ways that they’d push back on otherwise… yet, with you, thanks to you prefacing, they accept (& even enjoy!).
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Feb 18, 2025
Prefacing lets you approach women or issues in ways that they’d push back on otherwise… yet, with you, thanks to you prefacing, they accept (& even enjoy!).
Both compliments and negs are part of a quadrant, but few men use them right. Most use the OTHER (far less effective) side of the quadrant: flattery and insults.
How available can you make yourself with women? When do you become too available… vs. too unavailable? Use the 4 availability questions to balance your availability.
Before having sex, a woman needs to feel she’s not putting her ego at risk. Here’s what you need to know to manage her self-esteem before and after the act.
Men often think women don't like them for something unrelated. When in fact 'she's intimidated by you' is often the true cause of women's reserve.
As a high value man, it's easy to seem out of girls' leagues. A focus on the High Value Man Big 5 for attainability keeps you in-reach for women you like.
Once you’ve made yourself an attractive man women want, the battle is half won. The next step: finding ways to lower your cost, to make it easy for women who want you.
In this video, Hector Castillo goes over the three types of attainability problems that lose you girls, how to recognize them, and how to fix them.
You’ve met a girl and it’s going great. But suddenly, she winds up in a conflict with somebody else. What do you do and how do you behave?
A girl who’s in auto-rejection gets cold and snubs you. To turn it around and effect a recovery, you must use this 4-step formula.
Part 10 of a 10-part series: what does the genuine man look like in action? Take a look at a cornucopia of personal anecdotes and experiencing sharing just this.
Girls who like you will reject you anyway sometimes – if attainability is low. Find out how to stop this happening with women you want.
Have you been trying to reassure women that you'll be around and available? Then you've been doing it wrong. It's scarcity that most attracts women - not availability.
Being a challenge with women is a necessary part of flirting with and attracting women – but how do you know if you’re doing enough of it?
