Tactics Tuesdays: Conformity Framing
Feb 11, 2025
If you want to get a girl to do what you want, it’s a lot easier if she thinks what you want is ‘what everyone is doing’ or ‘what the cool kids do’. That’s conformity framing.
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Feb 11, 2025
If you want to get a girl to do what you want, it’s a lot easier if she thinks what you want is ‘what everyone is doing’ or ‘what the cool kids do’. That’s conformity framing.
Your social frame is how well you fit into a given venue or environment. Do you match it – or do you seem out of place? The better you calibrate, the easier it becomes to excel socially.
Nearly every conversation you have frames you as an outsider or an insider to something. But have you framed yourself as such on the right things… and in the right way?
There are a variety of tools you can use to set sexual frames. But they aren’t all best used at all the same times in a seduction. Here’s which to use and when.
You can’t always avoid a frame war. If you find yourself in one, you’re going to use one of these tactics to come out the winner.
Men often inadvertently spark frame wars with women they’re courting. Ways they do this include over-playing their tactics, failing to make the girl feel special, and more.
What is a frame war? This phenomenon occurs when someone seeks to seize control of the frame from you and you seek to seize it back.
Frames are easier to set with the right meta-frame in place. Yet frames feed into the meta-frame to. So how do you set one conducive to success with the women you want?
The meta frame is the frame of frames. Learn to set it and setting other frames gets far easier.
Set some sexual frames, and watch her become aroused, compliant, and hooked in. Sexual frames make a seduction easier – and there are 8 ways to set them.
When you run into a potentially awkward situation with a woman, you need to ask yourself: will she be the one who controls the frame, or will it be you who does?
Sexual frames are crucial to taking your courtships out of the platonic. Yet unlike social frames, they won’t set themselves. You must set them intentionally to see romance blossom.
Setting the right social frame is an art you'd do well to learn to master; it is crucial in seduction.
She has her own internal frame, and you would do well to reframe it, if it is in your interest to do so.
