Dealing with Social Friction, Part 1: What Is Friction?
Mar 17, 2025
Friction occurs in every complex system. If you want to date and socialize effectively, you must be able to identify it – and then adjust your response!
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Mar 17, 2025
Friction occurs in every complex system. If you want to date and socialize effectively, you must be able to identify it – and then adjust your response!
February 2025’s Skilled Seducer is Atlas IV, an up-and-coming seducer blasting through sticking points left, right, and center. Read his interview here.
Prefacing lets you approach women or issues in ways that they’d push back on otherwise… yet, with you, thanks to you prefacing, they accept (& even enjoy!).
Listen to how James D pulls off his rapid same-day day game lays and other pulls in January 2025’s Skilled Seducer of the Month interview.
It looks funny to go out peacocked when your crew’s not dressed accordingly. Just how peacocked do your wingmen, friends, and wingwomen need to be, though?
A boyfriend disqualifier gets a girl to think of you as just a lover, not a boyfriend. When you use these, must you ‘go all the way’ in having her disqualify you – or not?
If he charges you money, isn’t it a scam? While scammers do exist, all the best advisors, instructors, & coaches in seduction or any field are PAID!
If you’re stumbling in a seduction, is it because of the girl, or because of your skill? To figure out which, we need to establish the pattern – if there is one at all.
A ladies man who wants consistent romantic success adheres to one maxim: ALWAYS BE CLOSING. Because the man who can’t close is a man who can’t win.
Traveler, romantic, and prolific seducer Allen Iverson (not the basketball player) discusses his adventures and seductions. Here’s how he gets laid.
Rather than pull a girl home as soon as she’s ready, you can delay the pull and tease her a bit. Why do this? Simple: to face less (or no) LMR at your place.
When you’re out with girls, other men may try to steal them away. Your mission: to fend such men off without giving up power by looking jealous or needy.
Giving girls “outs” during a seduction is essential to maintaining comfort and buy-in. But what’s the nuance – and what when your gut says “don’t do it?”
The man who excels with women is the one who possesses enough very positive reference experiences with them. These SHAPE his mind & behavior toward women!
