Schrödinger's Attraction: Women Both Want You & Don't at the Same Time
Aug 31, 2025
Understand “Schrödinger’s attraction”: a woman can be simultaneously interested and not—a state that collapses only when you make a key move.
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Aug 31, 2025
Understand “Schrödinger’s attraction”: a woman can be simultaneously interested and not—a state that collapses only when you make a key move.
When you chat up a girl, does she realize you’re hitting on her? If not… how obvious must you be for her to “get the picture” that you like her?
Does it seem like women are out there slutting it up, picking the worst men, because their taste in men is just so poor? Is that real… or is it illusion?
How difficult is it to get girls now that dating apps, social media, and OnlyFans puts tons of simps, Chads, and validation around every girl? Has dating grown impossible?
Women do not think the way guys think they do. In fact, they misunderstand men a lot. Get how girls think, then leading & loving them grows far easier.
Women now are far less worried that men won’t accept their sexuality than they were 10 years ago. Yet what’s still key to them TODAY is sexual COMFORT.
Girls will giddily talk up the guys they are (or were) going out with. Yet the actual man is never quite as impressive as the picture girls paint…
A reader doubts why women wait for men to approach them. Is it really because they judge men’s approaches? Or are they just too scared to approach first?
A lot of guys seem to think a woman will respect you more if you walk away. But they don’t. They just forget you. Except for just a few scenarios…
Women debate the morality of an extramarital affair while married to a man you don’t love. Why do different women view things differently?
Women sort regular guys into stereotyped boxes to know what to do with them. But make yourself sufficiently attractive, and these rules no longer apply to you…
What do women’s real dating histories look like? Do they hook up with tons of different guys… or are their romantic pasts, in fact, rather plain?
Even hot women aren't sure what your intentions are when you approach them unless you state them clearly. So you don't have to go direct.
Women get self-conscious about their bodies and pussies, which is why you need to make her feel comfortable, or her insecurities can force her out of a sexy situation.
