When Girls Compliment or Approach You, You Have to Take the Lead
Aug 4, 2025
When women compliment or approach you, they’re opening an escalation window—but you must lead. Miss it, and they’ll ghost. Follow these 4 steps to respond.
Aug 4, 2025
When women compliment or approach you, they’re opening an escalation window—but you must lead. Miss it, and they’ll ghost. Follow these 4 steps to respond.
If you look good as a guy but women still don’t signal you to approach, what gives? In fact, there’s more that goes into women signaling than a man’s looks.
Women signal their interest in men often. But there’s some debate: is it worth paying ATTENTION to women’s signs of interest or not? It is… sometimes.
Want a girl to show you she wants to meet? Here’s a simple tactic: do stuff that calls her attention to your face, so she notices you & can signal you.
What if you could approach with minimal risk of rejection? With drive-by approaching, you can. See how to use it in loud, chaotic venues where (ordinarily) high rejection risks abound.
At unexpected times, in unexpected places, women may start talking to you. If you aren’t ‘on’ you can miss these chances. How best should you respond?
Check the room you’re in to look for girls open to an approach – and other chances. The room check (or scan) can be a big help… if you know how to use it.
When you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles, it’s one of the clearest invitations you’ll get to approach. If you’re in the market for a woman or two, go meet her.
Your normal go-to openers may be great, but they can be even better if you make her think SHE invited YOU to approach. It’s so easy you can start doing this now!
Clubs are pits of sexual chaos, but nothing goes unnoticed. To position yourself as a guy who is destined to get laid, you’ve got to manage how you’re perceived.
You can use attention grabs to elicit approach invitations from women. Why would you want to do that? So you know which girls to chat up.
How do you check out a girl without leering at her or being sneaky? And… is there a way to do it that actually turns her on? As a matter of fact – yes.
Sometimes it’s tough to recognize an approach invitation from a girl hanging around by pure chance. Here, we look at how to do that, and what to do when you get these.
It's not easy to get approached by women, even for good-looking guys. Find out the tips you need to pull it off though – all right here.