9 Things to AVOID to Not End Up "Jaded About" Women & Love
Dec 4, 2025
Many men end up jaded about women. What they don’t realize is they walked INTO their jading. Avoid these 9 things & you’ll avoid jading yourself on girls.
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Dec 4, 2025
Many men end up jaded about women. What they don’t realize is they walked INTO their jading. Avoid these 9 things & you’ll avoid jading yourself on girls.
Reading and watching material is great for the added tactics and perspectives. But if you truly want success in anything, you must apply yourself at it.
Men fear doing many things with girls: approaching them, chatting them up, asking them out, making moves. Yet the more you do each, the less scary it gets.
As Alek Rolstad has progressed as a seducer, he’s continued to incorporate facets of other seducer’s concepts and material. See his later influences here.
Alek Rolstad details the early influences on his style of game. Which seducers had the biggest impact on him? See which styles inspired his seductions.
Girls put guys in some tricky situations. Is there a way to always know how to act the right way with a girl? There is… and it’s not as hard as you’d think.
Men get into seduction to fix a need. Yet getting past this initial neediness is what’s required to reap the greatest dividends with women.
Many sexually inexperienced men tend toward dogmatic, unrealistic views of women. Why is this so, and how do you get a firmer grasp of feminine realities?
Some guys are closers: they will bed a girl even if it gets a little tough. Many men are wheel spinners: when the going gets tough, they give up. But why?
An untamed heart is pivotal to true freedom. The untamed heart resists yielding to the ownership of others. Instead it forges ahead toward its own aims.
A girl wants to date or maybe for you to commit. But you dawdle and don’t make it happen. So she gives up – but then, you give chase! Why? The Dap Trap!
For the average man, dating is fraught with emotion. Rejection stings, and success elates. Yet what of the veteran dater? For him, it’s far more depersonalized.
You’re hooking up with girls but it just feels so… empty. What’s the source of this hollowness? Have you outgrown hookups? Are women just too shallow? Actually… it’s something ELSE.
Your luck surface area is the amount you expose of yourself for “lucky events” to happen. Men who open themselves up to more seductive luck enjoy more seductive “lucky breaks.”
