5 Ways Guys Blow the First Kiss (Plus How Not To)

By: Chase Amante

first kiss mistakes Today we're going to talk about how guys get the first kiss wrong.

We've had a slew of articles on Girls Chase about how to get the first kiss right.

It's a fairly long list:

How to Kiss Her: kiss basics
Manhandle Kisses: an aggressive, dominant kiss
Can't-Miss Tips for Getting the First Kiss with a Girl: tips for the first kiss
How to Kiss a Girl Like No One's Ever Kissed Her Before: step-by-step kiss guide
How to Kiss Girls in Public and Have It Go Great: kissing girls in public
How to Be a Good Kisser: 5 Steps to Confident Kissing: mindsets, techniques, and tactics for great kisses
Tactics Tuesdays: How to Make Her Kiss You Back: getting her to kiss you back when you kiss
The Kiss and Other Mouth Moves in Physical Escalation: using kisses to move the courtship forward
Tactics Tuesdays: The 5-Second Kiss: kiss a girl five seconds after you first meet
Tactics Tuesdays: Kisses for Good Behavior: reward her with a kiss
3 Legendary Movie Manhandle Kisses to Model Your Kisses After: examples of manhandle kisses in action, so you can see exactly what these look like

One subject we haven't delved into on kisses much though, is things to avoid doing with the kiss.

All those first kiss mistakes you can (and many guys do) make.

We've talked about some things to avoid here and there. But we haven't covered them all. And not all in the same place.

For this piece, I've compiled the top five ways guys blow the first kiss. They're all here in one place, for your easy perusal.

Note that I am going to leave out the most common way guys blow the first kiss, which is to not actually make the first kiss at all. Whether that is because they wait too long for the right moment, or they even feel the right moment but can't summon the courage to kiss, this is the most common way to blow it. However, we've addressed this mistake extensively in the other kiss articles (above). In this article I want to focus on things guys do wrong when they make the actual kiss (rather than wilt out of hesitation).

After we talk about each way to botch the kiss, of course, we'll talk about how to not blow these aspects of the kiss, too.

Here's the list of the top five biggest ways guys blow that first kiss (and how not to).

Chase Amante

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Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website. He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System.

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