Overproviding Good Feelings

This is one of those things that, when I figured it out, kinda made me slap my forehead and go, “Duh.” But even still, it took me five years to figure it out. And I’m going to give it to you in one post.

You’re welcome ;)

I figured it out gradually as I realized a number of things:

• I did better with women when I told less entertaining stories.
• I did better with women when I gave them less fun.
• I did better with women when they knew less about me.