Sexual Dry Spells, Negative Momentum, and the Big Picture

Hi there. I hope everyone is doing well. Today we are focusing more on some theoretical stuff and less on beginner material.

This post is fit for everyone practicing cold approach pick up (the most exciting form of pick up, in my opinion).

I have in the past already discussed social momentum quite a few times already. Today we will also discuss momentum, but look at it from a different perspective: from a macro perspective.

Social momentum (micro) - discussed previously - covered how you felt; your emotional state when out meeting women. Positive social momentum could help one get laid, as he will not only feel more like interacting with strangers, but also be more comfortable doing so. When you have (micro) social momentum, you feel like an unbeatable god, as you:

• Approach more women, feeling on fire

• Have bigger balls and are bold in your approach, as you don't really care all that much about rejections

• You will in many cases be more high energy and hook more girls (as you will come across as more exciting) - the pitfall here is that you will have to tone it down when getting into "seduction mode" (unless you want to end up being perceived as a dancing monkey)

• You will feel more confident

If you have been out in the field a few times, you have probably already reached this type of momentum. I will not cover "how you get there" in this post, as I have covered this aspect already a few times. If you need advice on how to reach social momentum, then check out these post:

• How to Ramp Up Social Momentum (and Meet Loads of Girls)
• Picking Up Women When You're Feeling Low Energy
• Dance Floor Game Tips #2: Warming Up on the Dance Floor
• What Men Who Get Laid Do Before a Night Out
• How to Start a Conversation with Anyone You Want