Have you ever noticed how women sometimes launch into relationship drama, picking a fight
for no logical reason at all… and how even their arguments themselves
are completely devoid of logic? Or how women sometimes try to boss you
around, just to see how much they can get away with?
And with 80% of guys, a woman can get away with a LOT… until she
completely owns him and walks
all over his dignity. Yet he’s grateful - hey, at least he has a real
girlfriend that is not made of rubber! (Grab
one of our programs, of course, and you won’t have that problem).
But why do women do this? What’s the deal with women
and drama? We all know they don’t want a weak guy… so why
are they undermining his strength and masculinity? And what’s the best
way to deal with it?
You may have read on our blog before that women
test men because they NEED to make sure their man is strong
– so that’s one reason why they put his masculinity to the fire. But if
you give a girl too much rope, she’ll hang you with it.
Another reason for drama, however, is one of the more insidious
tricks of Mother Nature… women also need to gain a certain amount of relationship control over their
men. If she’s not in charge, he might leave once she’s pregnant… she
needs to be sure that she can access his resources, both for herself
and for their offspring.
If she starts to hold TOO much
control in the situation though, she will see that you’re not strong
enough and lose all interest in you. On the other hand, if you hold too much control, you will
probably lose interest in her
– that’s the essence of the passion trap.
The secret is to strike the right balance… and to do that, you will
sometimes have to disarm one of her tests.