Teasing a Girl the Right Way

I just had two dates with a guy who teased me constantly. He was perfectly fine otherwise. But I started to really hate him. When he went in to kiss me, I was disgusted and pulled away. I felt guilty about it, which sent me to the web. I hope he finds this article. The constant hostility was very trying. Great advice, thanks for the piece!

AWESOME post here man. I really needed it. I went to a party here there was a very good-looking girl, but I did not tease her very much and it felt a bit awkward. Could you give me some teasing lines that are not "cheesy". I want to see the variety of teasing.

Thanks Chase.

i just got a text from some1 overseas ...then i saw some1 nt knowing hw to teese then i said pretty waz up with ,,do u know wat she said,,,,would tell u if u just turn back ....ah am enjoyin g this

How do I say, "I don't like something and the fact that you do and want me to love it is seriously annoying" in a kind and appealing way? So far I've been trying to evade the subject but...she's kind of relentless. So what if I don't like colour, is that a big deal? Also WHY does she keep going back to that subject? Does she realise I don't want to talk about it???

This completely blew me out the water!
I think I love this style better than anything. It's sweet and non domineering. It leaves the other person feeling more at ease.

The conventional is more suitable for buddies etc because other oriole can laugh at you're jokes and it's cool. This style here is for depth and firm intimacy.
Thx chase

This one is spot on. I HATED the guy who teased me the wrong way. It hurt. But if a guy can be funny the right way, that's very, very attractive and makes me very happy. I've seen both.

I think this is a really nice piece as it provides useful information about teasing. Before I read this, I had a hard time struggling with boys' teasing. I felt like they were making fun of me all they want. Thanks to chase, now I know that teasing can be both competitive and cooperative. I hope boys can tease cooperatively to make girls feel more at ease. I hope I can learn from this and be able to deal with these different kinds of teasing from now on. Overall, thanks for the nice piece of information and keep up the great work!

Hey man good article but I've got a question. What about C&F ? Some years ago I was very c&f and it worked but now I'm just appearing arrogant, many girls told me that, I dont know why because I'm using the same lines and things ? I really like it when I was c&f , the attention I've got and the fact that it made appear very powerful . I mention that I am a good looking guy , maybe thats why this thing didnt worked anymore. Please man if you can help me Id be very greatious .

hahaha! that samurai sword thing was hysterical! best article EVERRRR

I was getting on really well with a girl, we seemed to click and we were into each other. We kissed passionately and I was on another level in terms of my game. However one time I was with a mate and we decided to really banter this girl, we really went for the banter and probably humiliated her. She tried to brush it off but you could tell it hurt her, I tried over the next couple of days to contact her but she had gone cold. I'm going to leave her for a week and then turn up on her doorstep with a letter of apology and flowers, hopefully it should go well, any other tips?

This works got me laid many times.

I was too cowardly to tell a grown man to stop teasing me and it has set my confidence back considerably. It was really hurtful and I did not understand why he would talk to a relative stranger in such a way. In addition to saying within earshot to other men that I was dirty and encourage younger and more pretty women to be bitchy towards me (one called me "haggard"). On one occasion he walked up to me, liked me up and down and said "ugh!" I'm friendly and try to be inclusive. I'm nothing special to look at and although I'm social I'm not a dater. He did other stuff too. Why would someone do this?

This article is excellent!

It is very useful, not just for seduction scenarios, but for many types of interactions.

What a service this is. Keep up the fine writting

What i don't understand is your Article is "Be Short and Direct" But if you be Direct wouldn't you be less intriguing abd getting investment because you are direct and would make it less interesting.. So how do you get Investment and get her chasing while being short and direct on what you say.

I hate the first type of teasing, I'm naturally like the second type, but I don't think it's teasing. I have a sticking point where I can't create that exciting, tense feeling with a girl, even though she's attracted. I think you're right that it's about humour, but the second part is more like 'how not to be a douche' rather than 'how to tease'.

When she said she sucks with dire tons and don't where the street is..I Woulda have said you know those poles sticking up out the corner if the ground they have names on it,and usually those names are the names of the streets..Or when she said she's a party girl I Woulda said I got some henny some X and a Lil Wayne cd (Fuck lil Wayne I'm just saying) Or when she said I have exams I Woulda have said wow that sucks to be you I'm hate exams and studying,So wanna come by and study...He lost her at the music thing It takes 2 to tango and I get stumped sometime but that's because the girls I talk to are the equivalent of talking to a corpse in a morgue,boring as shit then they say why my so quiet umm let's see because ya ain't giving me nothing to work with. Like I said takes 2 to tango.

Chase, your examples of cooperative teasing sound more like playful banter than actual teasing.

'"But I almost feel like it's too much for most girls -- they're going to feel like they aren't able to compete with you...'"
Um, no. It's not that it's "too much" for us or that we want to win a teasing competition with you. If we're cold towards you after you pull one of these lines out, it's because we found it hurtful. Simple as that.