The 4 Stages of Pickup and Seduction Development

Most guys who discover the seduction community don’t taste the fruits of real success with women, because they get stuck. What stage are you at, and how can you progress?

For most guys starting out, learning how to approach women is about as fun as hammer fisting themselves in the nuts. But there comes a point when it goes from being terrifying and horrible to heroin-level addictive.

Many men ask me the question: “How long does it take to become good?”

There’s no direct answer. It depends on your desired outcome.

• Do you want to get a laid a few times and find a nice girlfriend?

• Do you want to sleep with a lot of women and have open relationships?

• Do you want to travel the world and rack up a notch count into the hundreds, sleeping with some of the hottest women in the world?

If you want to achieve a goal, it helps to know what that goal is.