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Podcast with the Girls Chase Seduction A-Team: Lessons from Stockholm

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Welcome back to another episode of Dating Mechanics! For this podcast, I have something different and special for you. A few of us Girls Chase authors met up in Stockholm, Sweden this past summer for a few days and nights. We met up with each other (some for the first time), met plenty of women, both during the day and at night, and had lots of fun observing and adapting many of the different social strategies we teach on the site. The day after each night out, we’d get together and break down our experiences and what we learned.

In a way, we created our own informal boot camp of authors from different backgrounds. We pushed ourselves to see how we could apply all the concepts from Girls Chase in a foreign environment. We also agreed to record a podcast in which we’d share all this new information with our readers.

I present to you the completely unedited and uncut recap of our Swedish adventure, featuring myself (Varoon Rajah), Hector Castillo, Alek Rolstad, Pablo Garcia, and “Kant” of the Sedfast boards.

Here’s a quick summary:

  • Pablo discusses the learning process and why when you fail is the best time to learn. (2:56)

  • Pablo, Alek, and Varoon discuss our third night out, at a large indie rooftop dance venue. (3:24)

  • Alek and Pablo discuss their big lesson of the night – how key it is to approach more than just one group of girls when out at night, especially based on the time. (4:15)

  • Pablo discusses his “bullshit opener” and why it’s not important what you open a girl with, but HOW you open her. (5:45)

  • Pablo introduces the traffic light system – how to tell if a girl is receptive to an advance. (6:49)

  • Pablo and Alek compare their night game styles – Alek’s verbal game vs. Pablo’s escalation game. (7:27)

  • Alek discusses wingman styles and how to synchronize with a wingman. (8:38)

  • Alek and Pablo note how both girls they were talking to separated themselves to be with the boys, and why this is important. (10:40)

  • Pablo’s ultimate compliance test. (11:38)

  • Alek introduces his Tantric Sex routine and why it’s important to introduce sexual topics in a non-explicit way. (13:13)

  • Alek and Pablo describe how they create a physical connection with any woman by discussing Tantric Sex, and Varoon adds his own experiences. (14:45)

  • We discuss how Alek uses his hair as a prop, and why it’s important to have a girl invest in you when you’re with her. (18:20)

  • Varoon describes his strategy of planting many seeds with many people early in the night – to be more social and create interest. (19:16)

  • Pablo compliments Varoon’s escalation style – and why it’s important to escalate properly. (21:00)

  • Alek, Varoon, and Pablo discuss the dynamics in night clubs, men, and women in North America vs. Europe. (21:43)

  • Alek, Varoon, and Pablo share their experience at a dive bar at the end of the night. (24:58)

  • Varoon introduces Hector’s experience with street approaching throughout the weekend and how women light up every time. (28:53)

  • Hector shares how he approaches women during the day, how women don’t stop being women whether it’s day or night, and how to train one’s own body to react to a woman viscerally. (29:42)

  • Pablo compliments Hector’s smooth approaches and fundamentals. Hector discusses why fundamentals are so important and how most men ignore them. (31:07)

  • Hector discusses why the angle of approach is so important when stopping girls on the street, and why a girl’s friend moving away is a signal of acceptance. (33:15)

  • Alek discusses Hector’s confidence in approaching, and why it’s so important. (35:00)

  • Hector discusses how he gets over his approach anxiety and how to trick your brain into approaching. (37:33)

  • Alek and Hector discuss how Hector hooks girls in after approaching them, night or day, and how to tell if a girl likes a man instantly. (38:30).

  • Varoon and Hector discuss how to use pointing to gain compliance and break tension in an approach. (40:08)

  • Hector, Varoon, Pablo, and Alek reveal how they hook women during the daytime and at night, and why it doesn’t matter what a man says – but how he says it. (41:44)

  • Kant and Varoon note how Hector’s “Hey, how are you?” opener is authentic, and how some ballsier approaches are more advanced. (43:42)

  • Alek discusses how to use pauses to create intrigue. (45:41)

  • Everyone shares their biggest lesson – how a man can use the “Red-Yellow-Green” traffic light system to determine a girl’s attraction to him, and whether a man should move forward with a girl or move on to another. (48:00)

  • Pablo and Kant discuss how guys waste too much time with “yellow” girls (trying to make them compliant) when they should really leave and find a “green” girl, which results in sex more quickly. (50:15)

  • Everyone shares how “green” girls can be 10s and much easier and fun to be with, but you don’t know what they are until you approach them. (53:25)

  • Hector discusses day-game approach invitations and relates them to the traffic light system – and how girls are super aware of their environment. (55:03)

  • How girls react when a guy is just sort of attracted to her versus a guy who is REALLY attracted to her. (56:48)

  • Kant describes his “automatic” connection with his girl, which landed them in bed without kissing first. (58:00)

  • The guys discuss how to touch a girl softly and gently using your fingertips to increase desire and sexual tension. (59:25)

  • We talk about the role of WILDCARDS in night game and how they affected us all. (1:00:58)

  • Pablo shares his wild, explicit, and totally weird night-game story from a different weekend. (1:01:20).

Hope you came away with something useful and well learned from our little adventure! And do let us know about your questions on anything we discussed. Though only one of us ended up with a girl that whole weekend (remember, we’re humans too), we each learned a ton and have since killed it after returning to our own cities.

Talk to you soon,
Varoon

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