What's the Difference Between Using Uproarious vs. Subtle Humor with Girls?
You can use uproarious humor to get whole groups laughing. You can use subtle humor to set seductive frames. But how should you use either with girls?Insights from the Mind of a Seducer
You can use uproarious humor to get whole groups laughing. You can use subtle humor to set seductive frames. But how should you use either with girls?[WATCH] My FAVORITE Way to Tease Girls
Chase shares his all-time favorite way to tease girls. Draw women deeply into a “shared universe” with you with this powerful tease.Our second Lush Teases™ video is now out.
This one on my personal FAVORITE way to tease girls.
It’s one I’ve talked about on this site before (in fact, I talked about it very early on in Girls Chase’s lifetime) but in this video I go deeper and also give you a few rules around how better to use it.
There are some neat little tips packed into this short clip.
Leaving a Girl an "Out" in Your Seductions
Women relax more into seductions when they feel they have an “out.” Make her feel free to opt out, and you’re far more likely to get her opting in.Hey guys and welcome back. This is the first installment in a new series on leaving women “escape routes” in your seductions.
Today, I’ll discuss something I mentioned a few weeks ago in my indirect game series in the article “Do Girls Know You’re Hitting on Them When You Are?” During indirect game, it is not about whether or not she has good reasons to think you like her, but that whatever interests you is never truly “officialized” (made explicit) until you know that she is ready to say yes and her compliance levels are high.
Being explicit about your interest level and “officializing” your connection places her in a position where she either has to accept or reject your advances. If her interest is too low, she will resist. However, if the interest is not “official,” she will not feel forced to decide whether she accepts your advances. More importantly, she does not need to make her response explicit to you, as she can easily maneuver her way out if you turn out to be a creep. If she doesn’t know you, this is a possibility in her mind.
Tease Opener: "The Optimistic Complaint"
Opening with a complaint (“This line sure is long!”) can come naturally. But not everyone responds to it… because it’s NEGATIVE. Here’s how you fix that.As we gear up for the launch of my novel new teasing method (you can watch video #1 on it – about the #1 common humor mistake to AVOID when talking to girls – right here), I’m going to be talking a fair bit about humor and teases.
Today we’ll talk about a specific type of opener: the optimistic complaint opener.
Before you can dive into a new conversation, first you need to start the conversation. We do this using what we call openers.
Most folks find situationally relevant openers the easiest to begin with. They’re low pressure; they make use of the environment for context; and they’re a breeze to come up with.
Perhaps the easiest situationally relevant opener to stumble upon is the ‘humorous complaint’ opener. This is where you point out something less-than-ideal about the situation you and a girl find yourselves in, and use it to begin a conversation.
For instance, if you’re in a long line at a coffee shop, you might lean in toward the girl in front of you and quip, “Sheesh, we’re going to be here all month!” If you’re at a bar with terrible music, you might tap the girl next to you and ask her, “Who wrote this music anyway, Helen Keller?”
While these openers can be creative, and they do fit the context you use them in, they still face one major drawback: they’re negative.
Yet, with a little inventiveness, we can fix it.
[WATCH] Can Humor Help You Get with Girls?
Veteran playboys have debated humor for years: does it really help you get girls – and if so, how much? I answer those questions in this new video (Lush Teases).Okay, fellas.
You’ve been asking me to teach you how to use humor effectively with girls pretty much since the inception of this site.
I’ve seen a few programs over the years that teach guys some funny lines and techniques. We’ve go those here too. But I have never, ever seen a program that teaches men HOW to BE funny. Which is the big problem if you ask me – if you don’t know HOW to BE funny, all those ‘great techniques’ can very easily fall flat!
And so, I’ve put together a program that doesn’t just arm you to the teeth with ways to get women laughing their pretty little butts off…
I’ve put together a program that teaches you the nuts and bolts of humor itself.
One that gives you a METHOD to actually create humor that sucks women in.
