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Insights from the Mind of a Seducer

Influences on My Seduction Style, Pt. 1: Early Inspirations

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seduction inspirationsAlek Rolstad details the early influences on his style of game. Which seducers had the biggest impact on him? See which styles inspired his seductions.

Hey guys, welcome back.

Today I want to talk about my early inspirations and the people who inspired me that formed the foundation of my game. Next week I will discuss my later inspirations.

I’ve developed my own style, honed from creating many techniques, including sex talk. I‘ve developed strategies and concepts like FSC (female state control) and more.

But I have been influenced by other great seducers. Some have inspired me to create my own stuff, others have provided the basis for my material, and some have offered techniques and theories that help my game even today.

I will list my main inspirations from my earlier days, adding what they have contributed to my game. I will critically discuss each contribution by pointing out the flaws in each method (my personal opinions) and how I counteracted these to help my game.

So let’s begin with my first love.

Girls Who Always Reply to Texts But Never Want to Meet

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girl replies to texts but won't meetIf a girl replies to texts but won’t meet up, what’s it mean? In fact, it can mean several things – yet you’ll need to identify which to know what to do.

In just two days, my state-of-the-art texting system Impulse Texting hits shelves.

I hope you’re ready to start getting girls texting you back on impulse – because that’s what this system enables you to do (and if you have not seen them yet, check out the free videos on what this system does for you).

For now though, let’s talk about “friendly texter” girls.

These are the girls who will text you back, never ghost you, and are always friendly… yet never want to go out onto dates with you.

What causes this? Are they shy? Are they busy? Are you not asking them out the right way? Are they just too nice to not text you back?

There are a few things to understand about these girls, and girls texting in general, to get a handle on what’s going on with these situations.

From there, we’ll talk about what to do with girls like this in your phone.

[WATCH] 5 Key In-Person vs. Texting Girls Distinctions

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What makes texting girls so much more fraught than in-person communication?

Guys will sometimes freeze up and be unsure what to say next in-person, sure.

But it happens a LOT more over text! How often have you sat looking at a text message asking yourself, “What do I say to this?” only to send something that doesn’t even get a reply?

How Men Build (and Lose) Women's Attraction

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how to build attractionMen don’t build attraction in women gradually. Raised attraction comes in spurts – and when lost, it’s lost in disappointing spurts (or collapses), too.

How do some men take a woman who’s barely interested in them and make her fall in love?

How do so many other men manage to turn women who were attracted to them into women who no longer are?

[VIDEO] Having Natural Conversations Over Text with Girls

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In one week, I open the doors for IMPULSE TEXTING… my innovative new text-the-girl course that teaches you to use the psychology of natural conversations to get girls texting you back on impulse.

Today I have a second free video on creating natural conversations with women over text.

In it, we talk about why most guys’ text message convos DON’T feel natural… plus I give you a couple of tips you can start using today to help remedy this.

Picking Up Women in After-Hours Venues

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picking up women in after-hours venuesThe regular nightlife’s over, but the after-hours venues are still on. How do you pick up women from these places – and not risk late-night rejections?

Hey guys and welcome back.

In my last article, I gave an overview of after-hours venues.

These venues remain open after the general nightlife closes. They are the clubs that people go to if they want to party more. They usually attract more of the power-going crowd, like ravers and clubbers. Those may make up half the crowd. The rest will be regular people who have no idea how they got there.

I recommended opting for gay-friendly after-hours places or straight-friendly gay places. They tend to have the most girls with less male competition (most men there are gay).

Gay-friendly after-hours places are not unusual because those places are known as party scenes, and nobody parties harder, longer, and more seriously than gay people. They will readily go to the after-hours venues. Most after-hours venues that are good have a gay clientele.

Those that don’t tend to be sausage fests with primarily straight men.

You may see more men, but most don’t “count” because they are gay. This is even more so in gay venues open to straight people. Even more interesting is that gay and gay-friendly venues often have more girls than those that do not attract the gay crowd.

And no, they are not lesbians.

Why Do Women Want Men Who Can Provide for Them Long-Term?

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women want long-term providersIn today’s modern, egalitarian world, why do women still want long-term providers? Isn’t that redundant? Shouldn’t women just take care of themselves?

We have a romantically inexperienced member on the forum right now struggling to understand why women want men capable of provision in long-term relationships. Why can’t he just be his “really really cute” and “adorable” (his words) self and let women provide for him?

It might seem to make sense, after all. Women get more college degrees than men these days and, at least before age 30, in many cities (like New York and Washington, D.C.) out-earn men. The sex roles have flipped. It’s time for women to take on the provider role. Isn’t it?

This member in the thread above later argued that because women have slept with different men and are not virgins, they don’t bring enough to the table and do not deserve his resources. Therefore, they should be willing to do the work and bring home the bacon while he kicks around at home, presumably tidying up the house and working in the shed, or maybe the flower garden (after a hard day of “looking really, really cute,” I guess).

It’s obviously an absurd position to hold, but… why?

WHY is it ridiculous that a man could be the really, really cute & adorable, dependent, lovely house husband and a woman the hard-working, doting breadwinner – even in our modern, feministic, egalitarian society?

[WATCH] Why Girls Aren't Answering Your Texts

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In just a week and a half, on Saturday, July 15th, I’ll be opening the doors to my never-before-released texting system, Impulse Texting.

As we gear up for that, I’ve put together a series of videos for you on a set of pressing texting issues and questions men run into with women.

In today’s video, we examine one key question: why aren’t girls texting you back?

Go here to watch the video:

If a Girl Never Texts You First, Does It Mean Anything?

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girl never texts firstWhat does it mean if a girl doesn’t text you first? There are 5 different reasons why she never texts first. All YOU can do is follow your texting process.

I see a lot of stuff online claiming that, “If a girl doesn’t text you first, it means she’s not that interested.”

In articles and videos with this conclusion, the advice to men tends to be something like if she never texts you first, you should move on, and find a girl who’s more interested.

Find a girl who will actually text you first, instead.

Is this actually good advice?

Or is this advice all washed up?