Guys often think a
girl’s hotness = how hard to get she is. But there’s a lot more to it
than just her looks. 6 more things, in fact.
Men often think hot women are harder to get than women of average
looks. The usual rationale here is that hot women are
AWARE of their hotness, which leads them to grow pickier
in the mating game. Being hot, a girl is regularly hit
on by men, and gets used to her surroundings telling her she’s
beautiful.
Even though there is some truth to this theory, in today’s
post we’re going to have a look at six of the other
things that come into play... Six more variables that help to shape the
how difficult (or not) you’ll find it to seduce a particular girl.
Beyond and below these six things, we
will
see there are so many key
variables that one might wonder if it’s even worthwhile to dwell much
on them.
The quick answer to that last question is no... Dwelling on the
various items that make a girl easier or harder to get has little (if
any) effect on your actual in-field performance. Reason for this being
that
it’s very often hard and even
impossible to tell at the
start of things
whether a girl will be hard to get or easy.
Not only is it hard to tell whether
a girl is hard to get, even with the knowledge of all the variables at
play, but it is very difficult to pin point which
variable is actually having an impact on a particular girl... Plus how
that variable affects the
difficulty level of picking her up.
That being said, I believe awareness of these other factors might
challenge the common (limiting) belief that just because a girl is hot
she is hard to get (we might call this the “only hotness matters”
belief). The notion that a girl is
hard to get as a result of being hot might sometimes be the case but is
far from always the case.
Remove this mental limitation, and you may even
start to feel more confident when you approach hotter girls.
Lastly, I also believe you’ll find this article an interesting read
in
itself (or at least I
hope so!). Let’s have a look at those variables.
