Ready to meet more great & hot girls than you can handle via DAY GAME? “Meet Girls Everywhere” is back again to transform the way you meet women. All right fellas, the doors are open:
“Meet Girls Everywhere” has hit the shelves.
New to day game? It may seem scary to begin. All those girls rushing around during day… And no natural, unawkward way to meet them! Fortunately, it’s easier to begin than it seems…We’re just about to rerelease our killer day game course “Meet Girls Everywhere” (or MGE), with expert day game coach Hector Castillo. MGE’s an awesome training course you’re sure to love if you’re at all interested in meeting girls by day.
Today I figured I’d talk a little about first starting day game, because it’s one of the common hurdles guys new to day game face: “How do I begin doing day game?”
Going to parties or nightlife is one thing. You’ll have anxiety around approaching there, but pound back a few brewskis or get your wingman to cheer you on or pull you into one of his sets and before you know it you’re talking to girls.
Day game is different. There’s no social atmosphere there. Women aren’t standing around waiting for an approach. Many of them are busy, many are distracted, and few are expecting to talk to someone. It can feel ‘wrong’ striking up a conversation with a stranger… isn’t doing so intrusive? Aren’t you supposed to not talk to strangers? You’re supposed to go to special walled environments like bars to do that, not outside in the open air!
It's a little silly when you think about it, because for millions of years of hominid evolution, we sure didn’t have rules of “you cannot talk to women outside of walled edifices serving fermented hops.” For one, we didn’t have walls… For another, we also did not have barrels of fermented anything, let alone ice cubes and little umbrellas to stick in them.
Getting started with day game is thus a bit like becoming an evolutionary throwback… One leaves aside the polite rules and unspoken strictures of modern society, and becomes a little bit of a caveman roaming the streets 10,000 years into the future.
The rerelease of our vaunted day game course Meet Girls Everywhere is just around the corner (it rereleases this Saturday).
Yet before it premieres, we’ve got one more video to show you… on pulling off same-day lays.
A same-day lay is any pickup where you first meet the girl and sleep with her on the same day.
This is a little more “order of the day” in night game, where one-night stands are common, alcohol abounds, and many women present are there specifically to meet a man to go home with.
Friend, high status male, or outsider: every man must choose one of three romantic strategies to follow. The choice he makes determines the game he runs and the girls he gets.As I read the fascinating book The Mating Mind by Geoffrey Miller, I continue to have nice highlights and wonderful little insights.
(previous installment: “Males of Every Species Must Learn Game to Mate”)
My latest highlight comes from this passage by Miller, discussing scientific research into primate (including human) mate selection preferences:
Three kinds of female preference have been reported in primates: preferences for high-ranking males capable of protecting females and offspring from other males; preferences for male “friends” that have groomed the female a lot and have been kind to her offspring; and preferences for new males from outside the group, perhaps to avoid genetic inbreeding.
And it’s a good insight and lets us split up the three different types of men women go for and the different ways they get together with those men. We have of course:
High status “alpha male” type partners
Kindly “friend zone” type partners
Outsider “sigma male” type partners
Anyone advising any man on dating will have his preferences about which of these romantic strategies he recommends as the ideal path to follow… but it will always be one of these three.
Today I’d like to have a balanced look at the differences between these three kinds of men a woman will date.
We’re just a week away from rereleasing Hector Castillo’s groundbreaking day game training “Meet Girls Everywhere”… this time even more good stuff.
Something a lot of guys struggle with when new to day game is making the switch from picking up girls at night to picking them up during the day.
Nightlife has its own benefits and its own challenges. Yet stylistically it’s different from day game. If you try running day game exactly the same way you run night game, you’ll flop.
When you go out, look lonely, and pile up obvious rejections, people notice, especially in social places. What can you do to avoid this ‘negative social proof’ while out?You’re likely familiar with the concept of ‘social proof’.
Social proof is the principle whereby people like, trust, and feel more comfortable with people and choices that are already approved (proofed) by others (social).
Social proof is a useful advantage to have. While the concept can seem a little abstract, its real world results can be vast. Good social proof can lead to:
Much warmer receptions from those you approach
A much easier time reaching the hook point
More ‘slack’ cut for you in your interactions
Approach invitations from women who find you intriguing
As good as social proof can be, it’s a double-edged sword, yet its other edge is little discussed: the woman-repulsing bane of negative social proof.
Are you ready to unlock unlimited romantic possibilities and begin bringing the types of women you want into your life?
As we approach the rerelease of our trajectory-altering day game course “Meet Girls Everywhere”, we’re putting out a series of free videos with some of Hector Castillo’s day game tips.
You can watch Hector’s first video, on making your day game EFFICIENT, here:
Males of every animal species must practice and learn courtship rituals before they’re able to mate. The art of learning to court is a ubiquitous one – it is not human-only! Images created with Craiyon.I’m reading a truly fascinating, mind-expanding book right now entitled The Mating Mind.
You’re hooking up with girls but it just feels so… empty. What’s the source of this hollowness? Have you outgrown hookups? Are women just too shallow? Actually… it’s something ELSE.Once you’ve put the work in to climb from unsuccessful with women to more and more successful, a funny thing can happen.
It begins as elation at your success: you’re doing it! You’re picking up girls! You’re having one-night stands!
You feel pride, because you’ve finally made it. You’re living the lifestyle you saw on TV or in the movies and imagined yourself living, but that always used to seem so out-of-reach.
Then you pick up another girl. Then another.
Something starts to bother you. It’s that… you just don’t feel a connection to any of these girls.
They’re just strangers you talk to, say/do the right things with, then have meaningless sex you don’t even enjoy all that much with. Then they leave. Maybe you could see them again after… but you don’t much want to.
You start to feel sour about the whole thing. Perhaps you’re picking up the wrong girls. Perhaps picking up in general is not really the right fit for you. In the back of your head you realized you were hoping for magical connections and memorable experiences, but you’re just not getting that, and you wonder if maybe it’s even possible to get with women… maybe it isn’t.
What you’re experiencing is something we might call ‘hookup detachment’: you’re hooking up, but you just don’t feel connected to any of these girls.
So what do you do?
What happens when a girl starts talking to you but you aren’t ready to talk? There must be a way to NOT blow this… well there is: with 3-step “chitchat jujutsu.”You’ve probably had this happen:
You went out somewhere, just in your head, not in much of a social mood.
Some girl then appeared out of nowhere, trying to get your attention, smiling, tapping you, telling you, “Hey!”
And you, stuck in your head, responded with a stiff, stilted, “Oh, hey. What’s going on?”
She said, “Not much! How about you?”
You stumbled through a few more awkward phrases. You could tell she liked you and wanted to see if she could get something going with you, but you were just too out of it.
Then the moment passed. She realized you weren’t going to do much of anything. So she left.
Damn, another layup missed, you think.
There must be a way to snap yourself to attention and shift into gear when unexpected “gimmes” like this fall into your lap – right?
