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Expertly Calibrating Your Teases: Tease Tone & Length

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advanced tease calibrationOnce you’re good at using teases, it’s time for the next level: expert CALIBRATION of your teases to match the tone and length of what you’re reacting to.

We’re deep into the launch of Lush Teases™, my unique method for constructing seductive humor that moves girls resistlessly along to the bedroom.

Sales are going at a relatively brisk pace of one sale per hour since the start of the launch. More and more men are receiving access to this unmatched ability to tease – one that gives them a colossal unfair advantage of all the other men out there who don’t have access to the method.

Today we’ll be talking about a more advanced tease topic: namely, how to calibrate the tone and duration of your teases to the recipient and situation.

[LIVE] Lush Teases Out NOW; Learn My Unmatched LUSH Method

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lush teases is now liveLush Teases™ is available to own for the next four days. See how to create humor that attracts the fairer sex & seduces them ALL the way to the bedroom.

The day has arrived, and Lush Teases™ is ON SHELVES NOW (digitally speaking).

There’s never been a step-by-step formula to follow for creating seductive humor with women like this before.

Guys have put out pickup line books. They’ve shared flirtations. But no one has ever given men a METHOD they can use in real time with girls to seduce the fairer sex with resistless wit.

Lush Teases™ does that. And what’s more, it gives you a deep, natural-tier understanding of how humor that works with women works – and why goofy clownish humor doesn’t (nor being “the super serious guy” either).

⇒ WATCH MY PRESENTATION ON LUSH TEASES™ HERE⇐

Using Humor with Women in a Romantic Relationship

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using humor in romantic relationshipsHumor plays a key role in healthy romantic relationships. Not everyone uses it well, though; some barely use it at all. Here’s how to use it to buoy up & solidify your relationships.

We’re a few days away from the launch of my novel tease-the-girl method, Lush Teases™ (you can find the latest Lush Teases™ video here). In keeping with this week’s theme (‘tease weak’), I’ll be discussing the use of humor with women – in your romantic relationships.

While much of what I’ve been marketing Lush Teases™ for is the dating/seduction aspect of humor, the fact is humor plays an outsize role in your ongoing romantic relationships, too.

In the Lush Teases™ sales presentation (which will be live in a few more days), I quote a number of studies on the effects of humor. Some of these are on humor’s impact on your relationships – and the effects are LARGE:

  • 92% of couples say humor makes “significant contributions” to their romances (source)

  • 75% of couples laugh together once per day

  • Partners’ humor use is strongly tied to relationship quality & satisfaction

  • Constructive humor in particular dramatically raises long-term relationship satisfaction (source)

  • Women rate their partners’ sense of humor as one of the four most IMPORTANT factors to them staying in the relationship (source)

Humor is important enough for relationship health that women strongly look for it when selecting long-term partners. It plays such a role in relationship success that men’s poor use of humor in their relationships is actually predictive of divorce.

In other words, humor is vital – if you want a good relationship that is.

In this article, we’ll look at HOW you should be using humor in your relationships, and in WHAT ways you can use it.

[WATCH] Teases MUST Be Sensual

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want to seduce? your humor must be sexy!A good seductive tease is a sensual one. Why? What’s so important about SENSUALITY? Well, without it, you very quickly end up in the “jester zone”, for one.

We’re closing in on the launch of Lush Teases™ -- just four days away.

I hope you’re ready.

Today I have a video for you on one crucial element of teasing (and the FIRST of the four elements of the Lush Teases™ Method I’ll be revealing to you):

Your teases MUST BE sensual!

[WATCH] My FAVORITE Way to Tease Girls

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my favorite way to tease girlsChase shares his all-time favorite way to tease girls. Draw women deeply into a “shared universe” with you with this powerful tease.

Our second Lush Teases™ video is now out.

This one on my personal FAVORITE way to tease girls.

It’s one I’ve talked about on this site before (in fact, I talked about it very early on in Girls Chase’s lifetime) but in this video I go deeper and also give you a few rules around how better to use it.

There are some neat little tips packed into this short clip.

Tease Opener: "The Optimistic Complaint"

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optimistic complaint openerOpening with a complaint (“This line sure is long!”) can come naturally. But not everyone responds to it… because it’s NEGATIVE. Here’s how you fix that.

As we gear up for the launch of my novel new teasing method (you can watch video #1 on it – about the #1 common humor mistake to AVOID when talking to girls – right here), I’m going to be talking a fair bit about humor and teases.

Today we’ll talk about a specific type of opener: the optimistic complaint opener.

Before you can dive into a new conversation, first you need to start the conversation. We do this using what we call openers.

Most folks find situationally relevant openers the easiest to begin with. They’re low pressure; they make use of the environment for context; and they’re a breeze to come up with.

Perhaps the easiest situationally relevant opener to stumble upon is the ‘humorous complaint’ opener. This is where you point out something less-than-ideal about the situation you and a girl find yourselves in, and use it to begin a conversation.

For instance, if you’re in a long line at a coffee shop, you might lean in toward the girl in front of you and quip, “Sheesh, we’re going to be here all month!” If you’re at a bar with terrible music, you might tap the girl next to you and ask her, “Who wrote this music anyway, Helen Keller?”

While these openers can be creative, and they do fit the context you use them in, they still face one major drawback: they’re negative.

Yet, with a little inventiveness, we can fix it.

[WATCH] Can Humor Help You Get with Girls?

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does teasing girls help you get them?Veteran playboys have debated humor for years: does it really help you get girls – and if so, how much? I answer those questions in this new video (Lush Teases).

Okay, fellas.

You’ve been asking me to teach you how to use humor effectively with girls pretty much since the inception of this site.

I’ve seen a few programs over the years that teach guys some funny lines and techniques. We’ve go those here too. But I have never, ever seen a program that teaches men HOW to BE funny. Which is the big problem if you ask me – if you don’t know HOW to BE funny, all those ‘great techniques’ can very easily fall flat!

And so, I’ve put together a program that doesn’t just arm you to the teeth with ways to get women laughing their pretty little butts off…

I’ve put together a program that teaches you the nuts and bolts of humor itself.

One that gives you a METHOD to actually create humor that sucks women in.

Tactics Tuesdays: Fuck, Marry, Kill

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fuck, marry, killInject fun, break rules, and find out a girl’s deep opinions of men (which you can bond with her on… or TEASE!) with old classic ‘Fuck, Marry, Kill’.

This is an older seduction gambit that is very straightforward but pretty silly and fun.

It’s most useful in bars, nightclubs, parties, etc.

Essentially, you are going to ask a girl to point out three men in the venue to you:

One she’ll choose to fuck, one she’ll choose to marry, and one she’ll choose to kill.

This opens up all kinds of paths to all manner of irreverent humor, sexual frames, and chances to find out about her values and bond with her over them.

Why Do Women REALLY Divorce Men? (Why’s the Divorce Rate So High?)

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why do women marry men they later divorce?Women initiate 69% of divorces. Among the most empowered (college-educated) women, it’s 90%. Why though are women who driving so much of modern divorce?

Commenting on my article about why women always seem to go for the wrong guys, Vince C. asks

Chase, overall I certainly agree with most of what you're saying here but I think there should be a follow up article to this.

Because I'm genuinely curious, why is the divorce rate hovers close to 50% if many girls believe they are choosing the right guy for themselves, later to find out that this was in fact not the case?

A reader named Montage replies to Vince, noting that

Back in the day, a researcher looked at the divorce rate, concluding it was actually around 33-35%. The 50% figure was supposedly inflated by "serial divorcees."

I'm not sure why you're exclusively blaming women, though. What about the guys who filed for divorce? Some of them assumed they had found "Ms. Right," only to end up wrong. Other men marry their first wife for pure economics. Once a dude's career has taken off, he drops her for a trophy wife. I remember some guy did exactly that. Once his first wife had helped him graduate from schools of both law & medicine, he ditched the poor woman. He's no longer with us, and she's doing life in prison.

Another issue you're overlooking is that women's market value is mostly attractiveness/youth. For that reason, many will marry out of a fear of ending up as a spinster/weirdo, or out of a fear of life on one income, not because they feel they've found somebody special.

We know divorce happens.

We know it doesn’t always happen.

In India in 2024 the divorce rate was 1%.

In the United States in 1924, 100 years ago, the divorce rate was 14.4%, which is about a quarter what it is today. The U.S. was already the world leader in divorce at this point (and had since 1916).

Yet if you go all the way back to 1867 in the United States, the earliest date we have reliable data for, the American divorce rate was just 3%, not very much higher than India’s in 2024.

You can see how divorce rates have changed over the years in the U.S.:

U.S. marriage & divorce rates, 1867-2010U.S. marriage & divorce rates, 1867-2010

Obviously, we are looking at something highly variable over time.

Women initiate 69% of divorces overall. However, among women with the greatest amount of personal liberty – that is, college-educated women – women initiate a jaw-dropping 90% of divorces.

If women are carefully selecting men for a lifelong commitment, why are they the ones who most often break that up?