“Charisma In A Bottle” is out and available to own NOW. Nab your copy while you can still get all the bonuses and freebies free of charge… and be MAGNETIC.The doors are now OPEN on the rerelease of my course Charisma In A Bottle.
This is THE course you need to turn yourself into an irresistibly magnetic man.
As the world slips toward Armageddon, you’ll need to be prepared to keep meeting women during wartime. Here’s the ultimate guide to do just that.Today, martial spirit is rising throughout the Western world.
Following Russia's entry into the 8-years-long Ukrainian civil war on the side of the Eastern Ukrainians, jingoistic anti-Russian sentiment has exploded throughout the West. 74% of Americans support a no-fly zone over Ukraine in support of Western Ukraine, which would require NATO to shoot down Russian aircraft over the country, inevitably plunging the United States, Western Europe, and much of the rest of the world into a third world war.
Once the nukes start flying and the supply lines crumble, and the draft begins to conscript soldiers to fill up the undermanned Western militaries, doubtless drawing the entire global north and perhaps much of the south into prolonged, multi-year conflict, privation, and perhaps even nuclear winter, things will change in the modern dating landscape.
Many complicating factors will impact the way you meet women. You will experience too (as always occurs in times of war) dramatic shifts in normal female mating behavior, which may at first confuse you if unexpected.
In today's article, we look at what kind of changes you can expect, and how best to continue bringing new women into your life during a time of global war.
You want to make sure that when you touch girls, it isn't too often, and it isn't too little.
Much like Goldilocks and the Three Little Bears, you want to touch women just enough.
But how do you calibrate that with a woman you've just met in a new conversation?
In this free video, I give you a simple rule you can follow (and customize) for how often to touch a woman you're in a close conversation or on a date with.
This rule is one you can use to simplify your early interactions, so instead of stressing out over how often and when to touch women, you can focus on other aspects of the early courtship.
Give it a watch here, and avoid the awkwardness that comes from touching too often, or not often enough:
Follow this rule and avoid waiting too long or doing too much.(or click here to watch the video)
Chase
What made Sean Connery’s James Bond so compelling? Connery’s relaxed, provocative, self-amused style gave his characters a charismatic air unlike any other actor’s.I've always liked Sean Connery.
The way he carries himself and interacts with women has always impressed.
It's no coincidence that Connery (as we've covered on Girls Chase before) even into his 80s still had admiring female fans in their teens, twenties, and thirties talking about how sexy they found him. You can go click on that link and read a few screenshots I took of it if you want evidence.
What made Connery so sexy? He had good looks, and he had his leading man roles, and the wealth, fame, and status that came with those. But there are plenty of men like that in Hollywood -- more classically good-looking, with bigger roles, more wealth, fame, and status -- who don't command close to the kind irresistible charm Connery did.
That special something Connery had that set him a head above his peers was charisma -- in particular, charisma embodying the Father archetype from our four Charismatic Archetypes, covered far more in-depth in my upcoming course, Charisma in a Bottle.
If you're just tuning in, here are our prior three entries in the Charismatic Breakdown series:
Now let's have a look at just how Sean Connery did it.
Living the kind of lifestyle you want is vital.
It's what determines the people around you, the women around you, and the opportunities you have access to.
Yet if you don't build your lifestyle with the right foundation, it can be draining and punishing to maintain.
What's the solution to this? Build a lifestyle based around the right lifestyle structure for you.
We're one week out from the rerelease of my killer charisma & lifestyle course Charisma in a Bottle.
In it, I train you on being your most charismatic self... I also give you a full suite of tools to build your ULTIMATE bachelor lifestyle.
In this free video in advance of the rerelease, I introduce you to three "lifestyle structures", and why it's so crucial you set your life up around one that best fits you:
Discover which lifestyle structure suits you best.You can also click here to watch the video.
You'll want to get this nailed down before you do any additional lifestyle design work, so be sure to give this video a watch now.
See you in there,
Chase
Women are different from men. They aren’t attracted to the same things men are, and they choose their mates differently than men do.I spoke with a friend recently about how important preselection is to women's mate choices.
I shared some of the research on it (most of which I've shared in other articles or in One Date) that shows men get a +25% attractiveness boost when women see them with a good-looking girl who is visibly attracted to them... this is a bigger boost in attractiveness than height, good looks, confidence, humor, or anything else women like in men. Having attractive women attracted to you is the single biggest attraction factor there is for men.
My friend noted how he knew this, and in fact it was a big part of his game back in the day, letting women see lots of other good-looking women being very into him. It made hooking up a breeze.
However, he still found it a bit mind-boggling. He's not interested in women with lots of men around at all... it's a bit counterintuitive to a man that women like men who get women.
Recently he tried an experiment, just for the heck of it. He had a couple of average girls who were very into him, yet who he himself was not really attracted to. Just to test it, he told them a few stories about women not wanting him. The result was a complete 180 in their attraction; they lost all interest in him and stopped bothering him.
Imagine a hot girl telling you, "Guys just don't want me." You'd be all over her!
Why's it so totally different with the sex roles reversed?
In under two weeks, we reopen the doors for Charisma in a Bottle, my charisma training course.
If you're ready to exude the kind of personal magnetism you see in select Hollywood stars and other compelling figures, you're going to want to pick up a copy of Charisma.
In advance of the rerelease, I've put together a series of videos for you.
The first one, as you might guess, is on charisma.
Specifically, it's on selecting charismatic role models you can learn from -- whether on the screen or in real life.
Give it a watch, because this is one of the most IMPORTANT steps you can take for your own charisma:
Or click here to watch the video.
See you over there.
Chase
How come when a girl is really hot, you mess up more, even if you don’t with more average girls? There’s a reason for it – and it happens to almost every guy, too.I recently received an email from a long-time acquaintance who'd left England to begin traveling through Central and South America and get back to picking up girls again while also working as a yoga instructor.
He'd continued sleeping with average girls from dating apps over the lockdowns, then once his trip started, he bedded a few more average girls from hostels. Assuming all was good with his game, and he must be rust-free, he then proceeded to meet an extremely beautiful Argentinian girl... and it all fell apart.
He says:
I met physically my perfect girl who was working on the tour desks. She’s Argentinian and I’m really into Latin girls. I suggested she joined me for dinner and it went really well. I deep dived alot and after dinner moved her to a quiet sofa outside by the pool. She was a little bit tipsy by now from all the Argentinian wine at dinner, and was sitting super close to me. She also told me what an amazing evening she’d had and hugged me twice for a long time. It was the obvious escalation window, only I didn’t do anything!
My reasoning was that I’m new here and don’t want to seem like I was taking advantage of her when she was drunk. I figured I had loads of other opportunities. It was also late and I had to teach yoga in the morning. So we hugged and went our separate ways.
That was a big mistake! She text me the next morning saying how good a night she had. Now all I was thinking about is ‘this is going to be the hottest girl I’ve slept with, when can I get her alone again!’ So I went into full on chasing mode, suggesting she came with me on my weekend trip and suggesting a load of other potential dates. Plus inviting her to come and stay with me in London!
By time we had dinner it was the next week and by then her long distance boyfriend was unexpectedly coming to see her for a day later in the week. She’d also been offered a job in Tulum and was leaving at the weekend. This made me think ‘this is my last chance, need to impress her’ so I was way too high energy. Got her back to my room to drink wine on the balcony, but waited way too long to do anything, plus hadn’t been touching her or leading the conversation towards sex.
Also I’d been doing way too much deep diving that it had become an interview. She was tired so I knew it was my last chance, so tried to kiss her with no setup. She said she just wanted to keep things as they are as we get on really well and I said nothing to persuade her otherwise! I just waited a while and tried to escalate a couple more times, which again was chasing and unsuccessful.
I spoke to her a few times around the hostel in the week afterwards, but just casual friendly stuff. Turns out I’ll be in Tulum next weekend, she said let her know, but feel like it would be hard to arrange to see her without it seeming like I’m chasing. I was so mad with myself the next day! The escalation window had been wide open with a super hot girl, and I decided to walk away! But at least it lead to me re-reading a lot of your stuff!
Now, it wasn't like his game just completely disappeared. Because the very next day this happened:
The next day I had another tinder date with a Mexican girl who didn’t speak English. As I really didn’t care about her of course my game was great and quickly slept with her and had a great night!
He wraps up by asking:
Would you say there should be no difference between game with 10’s than average tinder date girls? If you haven’t written an article on this I think it’s an interesting topic. And how would you play seeing the Argentinian girl again?
I've written about that in places, in snippets, but I don't think I've ever devoted a complete article to the subject.
So, let's do that now. Let's talk about why guys screw up with really hot girls... and whether you can (and should) approach them exactly the same as more ordinary, average, or cute girls.
There are four good ways to introduce your wingman to girls. Which you choose will depend on how well (or not) the girls have responded to you so far.How do you approach girls with a wingman?
If you're like a lot of unskilled guys, you'll both go barreling in at once, distracting and possibly intimidating the girls.
The girls are then forced to divide their attention between two guys, and you and your 'wingman' end up in a de facto competition to try to get the girls' attention onto yourselves.
For obvious reasons, this is not so effective.
Another way I've seen guys do it wrong is the one guy opens, and the other just stands out in space and never introduces himself or gets introduced.
Not much good you can do as a wing when you're never in the conversation to, you know, wing.
What we want is to get your wingman in there with you, in a way that helps you with the girl you want and (assuming her friend is cute) sets him up to succeed with her friend too.
We need a little more strategy for this than "both guys go talk at once" or "one guy talks and the other just waits, possibly forever."
Let's talk about opening things with a wingman properly.
You may have friends you feel you need more than they need you. Why does this happen with friends, and what can you do to make it a realer, more equal friendship?A week ago on the forum one of our members asked me about friends who seemingly value you less than you do them / friends who seem to need you less than you need them.
I'll share part of his post here:
I consider myself a high value guy who’s good with girls , has good conversational skill and a good business he’s built - which does not mean I can’t improve, quite the opposite. Just that I have trouble thinking my problem is value.
but I do struggle with friendships and have a doubt I am not being respected.
How selective should you be with your friends ? How do you build abundance ?
I have about 8-9 people i consider pretty cool that I can go out with 1-2 a month ( some I can see 1-2 a week some I can see once every 2 months).
This feeling that I am more invested in the friendship than they are…
…and that I would like to see them more than they would like to see me bothers the fuck out of me.
I hate this feeling of neediness almost as much as I hated not having abundance with girls.
At the time i discovered that if I hit the streets and bars i only needed 10-20 approaches to bang a cute girl … and that feeling disappeared.
So my question isn’t only how to make new friends but rather, why aren’t all these guys as invested as I am in our ‘ friendship ‘ ?
Is that a respect and value problem ? Or did I target people who don’t go out as much.
First off, let me say I can relate, as I think most people can; unless all your friends are very close, old friendships, you probably have people you're friends with whom you aren't certain value you as highly as you do them.
This feeling is worse when ALL your friends are relatively recent friends.
I didn't stay close friends with anyone I knew before graduating university, and every time I've changed cities I've generally found myself with a bunch of totally new people, going through this same, "Are we valuing this friendship the same amount?" dance.
As our forum member notes, it is due to some degree of neediness, and as with girls it disappears as abundance does. However, like with girls, there are also levels of abundance with friendships too.
So, it can be a little complicated -- but let's talk about the causes and the remedies.
