Schrödinger's Attraction: Women Both Want You & Don't at the Same Time
Aug 31, 2025
Understand “Schrödinger’s attraction”: a woman can be simultaneously interested and not—a state that collapses only when you make a key move.
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Aug 31, 2025
Understand “Schrödinger’s attraction”: a woman can be simultaneously interested and not—a state that collapses only when you make a key move.
Think women are crazy? If so, it’s probably because you’ve dated one. Fact is, beneath their seemingly emotional disarray, you’ll find a high level of rationality.
We ran into the beautiful Clara while out filming, and she accepted my offer to interview her and get her insights on direct approaches and showing interest.
She’s super flirty or grinding you on the dance floor. So you reciprocate... but she quickly loses interest. How in blazes does one take these freaky girls to bed?
Women tell you they’re “done with hookups” all the time. But when they say it, do they really mean it?
Some guys just don’t ‘count’ for women. They can hook up with them, date them… and yet, the guys still don’t count. Why do women do this, and how can you be a ‘doesn’t count’ guy yourself?
Everybody likes attention. Yet with women, attention is more than a means to an end – getting your attention is very often the end itself.
One minute, she’s into you; the next, she’s gone cold. Why does this happen? Well, because if you’re not climbing a ladder, you’re sliding down a chute.
Despite the pop culture memes, women don’t actually know you definitely want sex… unless you make it clear to them.
If she likes you, but opts not to hook up with you, what does it mean? Why, it means you’ve failed her Chad test – and now she’ll make you wait.
What women say they want and what they actually choose often doesn’t line up. Why is so much of what women really want unconscious?
Guys often want a woman who will nurture them. How does a man come to desire this – and is it really the healthiest relationship setup?
All women have a wild side. But they won’t show it except to certain types of men. The pleasure-loving man knows how to bring this side out.
Some guys will tell you to get a beautiful girl, treat her the same as any girl. Good advice, but it’s worth keeping in mind: she isn’t, actually, the same as any girl.
