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Nobody Owes You Nothin’

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By: Chase Amante

Mar 12, 2016

If other people only care what value you provide them, why bother? Shouldn’t you be entitled to others’ value at no cost to yourself?

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Your Fears of Inferiority are Damaging You with Women

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By: William Gupta

Feb 26, 2016

It’s perfectly normal to have feelings of inferiority. Yet these feelings harm your success with women – and they must be vanquished.

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Stop Auto-Rejecting Girls Who Like You

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By: Hector Castillo

Dec 22, 2015

Men lose their shots with women all the time by going into auto-rejection... themselves. It’s time to quit throwing the towel in early.

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Your Future Self Will Suck Too (Unless You Do Something About It Now)

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By: Darius Bright

Sep 26, 2015

Everyone puts things off. But trusting “future you” to do what you think he’ll do isn’t always the best path to getting what you want.

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What Do These People Even Want From You?

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By: Cody Lyans

Aug 26, 2015

If you have trouble believing anyone truly wants to help you or contribute to your life, sometimes that’s because you’re confusing good with bad.

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Is It More Helpful to be Naïve or Jaded About Dating?

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By: Cody Lyans

Jul 11, 2015

With dating, most are either jaded (“Girls are a rigged game!”) or naïve (“I’m sure it will all work out on its own!”). Which one’s better?

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Why Your “Connection” with Her is Just Your Fantasy

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By: William Gupta

May 25, 2015

You’ve hit it off with a fantastic girl, and the connection is great. Yet, she never follows up with you, or flakes on your date. What gives?

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5 Limiting Beliefs that are Stopping You from Improving Your Appearance

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By: Darius Bright

May 23, 2015

There are 5 limiting beliefs you may have about your looks that seriously slow you down. Here’s what each means – and how to shake it.

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5 Tools for Obliterating Suppression and Anxiety

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By: Cody Lyans

May 7, 2015

The man who doesn’t have what he wants is ruled by his own anxiety and suppression of it. How can he break free to live a life he desires?

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Egomania, the Blindness You Were Born Into

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By: Cody Lyans

Apr 14, 2015

We are all born egomaniacs. Breaking through this looking glass means not just casting aside ego, but accepting the harm you cause through avoidance and insensitivity.

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The Genuine Man, Part 5: How to Not Hate Women

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By: Hector Castillo

Apr 8, 2015

If you’ve been hurt, it’s easy to begin to hate women. Yet hatred like this hobbles you, both with other women and life in general.

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Having a Positive Outlook vs. Solving Every Little Detail

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By: Cody Lyans

Mar 26, 2015

A positive outlook is essential for both long-term self-improvement and succeeding with women in the here and now. Without it, doors close.

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The Genuine Man, Part 2: The Myth of The Heartless Player

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By: Hector Castillo

Mar 18, 2015

The heartless player is a staple of all manner of romantic fiction – yet this armor is donned to protect weakness, rather than augment strength.

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