Dealing with Social Friction, Part 2: Reevaluation w/ the 3 Rs
Mar 31, 2025
When you encounter heavy friction socially, don’t just keep plowing. Instead, stop and reevaluate with the 3 Rs so you’ll know just what to do next.
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Mar 31, 2025
When you encounter heavy friction socially, don’t just keep plowing. Instead, stop and reevaluate with the 3 Rs so you’ll know just what to do next.
VAC and SAC are both powerful attraction models. Once you’re familiar with both, however, can you mix and match them for attracting girls – and if so, how?
When logistics or compliance don’t permit full isolation with a girl, instead: mini-isolate her. It’s simple, and can springboard you into full isolation.
Want to know how to pick up a girl in an elevator? You’ve got to be fast… and you’ve got to be GOOD. That ride doesn’t last long. Make it count!
Want to make it even simpler to isolate a girl you’ve been chatting up? Here’s all you have to do: qualify her first, THEN isolate her.
Before you make a move on a girl, tease her. You’ll create anticipation, and make her desire it more… and can even make her red-hot for romantic progress.
When you want to get a girl alone with you but she’s with friends, use it to your advantage. With her friend’s approval, isolating a girl gets even easier…
You’ve met a girl, chatted her up, but now she and her friends want to head somewhere else. Should you go with her, or stay where you are?
Isolating a girl is critical to moving your seductions forward. Use these simple steps to isolate girls and get them alone with you, away from other people.
Cold approaching women you don’t know is hard. If you lack the required social skills and mentality to make it work, you’ll burn out of it quick.
It’s good to want to move things forward with girls. But if the way you do it is pushy, you will scare girls off. Here’s how to move ahead sans pushiness.
A statement of interest (SOI) lets you directly state interest in a girl you like. There are pros and cons to this – yet if short on time it can be ideal.
The way you show interest in a girl – and the time you do it at – differs by your approach. Will you go direct on her, or do things in a more indirect way?
It’s time to heat things up with her. But are you better off choosing sex talk for that, or physical escalation? It depends: one is safer, one is stabler.
