Dealing with Social Friction, Part 2: Reevaluation w/ the 3 Rs
Mar 31, 2025
When you encounter heavy friction socially, don’t just keep plowing. Instead, stop and reevaluate with the 3 Rs so you’ll know just what to do next.
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Mar 31, 2025
When you encounter heavy friction socially, don’t just keep plowing. Instead, stop and reevaluate with the 3 Rs so you’ll know just what to do next.
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