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People in the seduction community make a lot of talk about IOIs, or “indicators of interest”. Indicators of interest are subtle hints that girls may drop – often subconsciously – in order to demonstrate their romantic and/or sexual attraction toward a man.
But the term “indicator of interest” makes this whole process sound entirely too scientific, as jargon in any niche field can. At some point, in order to master any craft, you have to get past the jargon and get back to what is simple. And in the case of women, what is simple for men is asking themselves the question: “Is she interested?”
At the end of the day, that is all we want to know. Is she interested or not?
Many men
waste a lot of time on girls who lead them on, are attention whores, or
are just too nice to reject them directly.
Because, as we know, most of us men need very direct communication – i.e., firm rejection – in order to relinquish our pursuit of a girl we fancy. But once we get that firm rejection, or are pretty certain that she is not interested, then we usually will move on.
However, most girls are far too nice to deliver such a blow. Or at least they think they are being so. So it is up to us to figure out if they are interested. And although it may seem somewhat difficult at first, it can be much more obvious than it appears once you learn to look at the signs. And once you become more attuned to the signs, you will be able to pick up on them without even trying. You will even be able to observe them in the dynamics between other people.
So is she interested? Well, by the time you’re done with this post, you should never have to ask yourself such a question when thinking about a girl you like. You will just know. And what is more: you will not only know, but you will also have the power and confidence to act. So let’s get to it.
Comments
On the Money
All the signs provided are great and I have to agree. If you think a girl likes you then don't wait, just make a move. Go for the kiss or grab her hand, Sometimes girls don't even know what they want and once you make a move they realize they want you.
Hi Colt. There's a MILF who
Hi Colt.
There's a MILF who has expressed some interest in showing her what kind of business I'm doing on the side. She asked me for my cell and was going to contact me for a meetup. My plan is ask her if she would like to meet at my home or at the coffee shop. If she bites (meaning she picks my home), then I know she's interested. But thing is I want a purely physical relationship with her. I think she's looking for a "good man" though and maybe I foot the bill for her.
So, my question is should I just get physical and try to bed her first? That way, I leave the lover window open for me (versus no window if I tell her all I want is to be her fuck-buddy and she says no). Then when she's wondering where the relationship is going, I can say that I always thought this was purely physical.
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Greetings! Very helpful
Greetings! Very helpful advice within this article! It is the little changes that will make the biggest changes. Many thanks for sharing!
What about girls you've taken to bed?
This article is all fine and good as it pertains to girls that haven't yet been taken to bed.
But what if a girl was warm and very communicative prior to sex, but after sex she's flighty, doesn't respond to texts til hours or a day later.
In your experience what's the best course of action? Play it off like the delayed response time doesn't matter and keep trying? Or to tell her to knock it off? Or to just drop em and move on to someone more respectful?
Causes of Rejection
Hey Colt,
Can you tell me "What are the main reasons that a women reject
a men?"
Playing with hair
Colt,
Can girls playing with their hair not just be a sign of boredom? I used to sit next to this girl in class who would ALWAYS play with her hair, stroking and twirling it and shit....I assumed she was bored.
Slash
Playing Games ?
I have know this female friend for about 6 months now. We have been causual friends and doing thing with one another for awhile now. A few weeks ago she stated that a friend of hers called and told her that I was having lunch with a female associate which was work related. Since, that time she says she can't trust me. Anyway, she has not contacted me. Tonight she text me and states "I hope your week is going well".
Do I answer the text or let it go to see if she texts again? OR, If I do text her back what should I say?
Will someone at GC please
Will someone at GC please answer these questions? It's been almost two weeks since the last question was asked. Thanks.
Applying these to my situation
Thank you for this site and for the helpful tips. My situation is a bit more complex and I wish there were more information out there for folks in my situation; but I can't expect much, because very, very few people are in my position.
My wife and I believe in the legitimacy of multiple wives for a man. But almost nobody we know, knows this, and for many reasons it has to be kept secret.
There is a woman I work with, very attractive, who I believe has many of the signs of showing major interest toward me (not just based on this article, but on other ones as well). Every day at work, without fail, she contacts me very early in the morning (I never initiate the 1st conversation of the day). We always end up chatting on the instant messenger all day long.
She is constantly asking me for my help on things work related.. basically she hardly asks anyone else for help. Even things that seem like she doesn't need help, she asks. I am not a very observant person, so I need to pay more attention to whether she plays with her hair; I am pretty certain I have seen her do this while around me recently.
I have tried to play the situation casually and not give away too much. I think she has been careful not to show any overly obvious sign of interest. For one, she has a boyfriend, and two, I am married with 9 children and she has a good heart and I think she does not want to (in her mind) ruin someone's marriage; little does she know that her developing something with me would not ruin my current marriage.
So anyhow, it is a tough situation to know how to play. I think I have been (sometimes) more obvious than I should have been, but still I have left room that I could deny/make an excuse if ever questioned.
Another interesting fact, is that she has consistently made comments to me, saying negative things about her current boyfriend (Whom she lives with). I am trying to let this all come to me and not rush anything. Perhaps I should, in the near future, bring up the topic of polygamy via some sub-topic (like a TV show about the issue)? That might open up a door perhaps. Any advice is appreciated.
#8: She Plays with Her Hair
This is only half correct; check her palms, are they facing towards you or away from you, hidden palms are an indication of deceit(context applied, it may not matter, she could be faking interest). Pulling the hair away from the neck is an indication of anxiety, good or bad. fixing the hair is a grooming behavior, which means nothing unless she's doing this while your not paying attention, sort of like how guys pick lint and crumbs off clothing while a girl looks away momentarily.
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