The Three Brothers' Wives
The parable of three brothers who choose different wives to fit
different criteria (beauty, kindness), and lead different lives as a
result.
Articles by Author: Chase Amante
Tactics Tuesdays: Make Her Laugh at Herself, and Break Her Resistance
Sure, you can give up, slink off, and go lick your wounds when a
woman resists you. Or… you can make her laugh at herself instead.
Resistance is one of the more troublesome things you'll run into with girls.
You approach her to say hello, she resists. You try to talk to her, she resists. You introduce yourself to her, she resists. You ask her to move with you, she resists.
There are various ways to counter resistance. Depending on when in the courtship you face it, the advice can be different. For instance, a girl who resists on the open is a lot less likely to have a guy hang around and try to break through that resistance than, say, a girl who resists once she's back alone with a guy and mostly naked. Most men will be more persistent the further along they are in the courtship.
But there is one magical way to tackle resistance that works no matter what stage of the courtship you're at.
It doesn't always work. It isn't 100% - nothing is. However, it's the best way I've discovered to shatter resistance. And best of all, it's fun.
This way is simple: you make her laugh at herself.
You point out how silly she is, resisting you like this. And then you make her have a little chuckle.
Because no matter how stony faced she was before... no matter how staunch the resistance she gave you was... as soon as she's giggling or snickering at her own silliness, much of the time, now you've got her.
If a Girl Has Sex with You Fast, Is She a Slut?
If she has sex with you fast, does that mean she’s easy? Well… it
might. Yet you need a bigger sample size than one (i.e., just you and
her) to really know.
One of the more prevalent notions about women and time-to-bed (I’m just going to call it ‘TTB’ in this article) is that the faster a girl gets in bed with you, the sluttier she is.
This is not just an Internet meme. It existed long before the
Internet did. It probably
goes
back as far as humans have been a mostly-monogamous species and have
possessed language (that is to say, this meme’s at least a
million years old).
Like much wisdom that’s been with us for a long time, it’s rooted in truth. On average, easier women have shorter TTBs (times-to-bed). The harder a girl is to get, the longer her TTB is, on average.
BUT, there is a but. There’s a big but. A Kim Kardashian-with-gluteal-implants sized but.
To be more accurate, there are several big buts.
And if you don’t know what they are, there’s a not-insignificant chance you will ditch a low partner count girl who’s never moved as fast with a guy as she did with you and never will again... or wife up a high partner count girl (with similarly high predilections to stray) after mistaking her for a cagey, hard-to-get one because she knew how to play the game (or just wasn’t that into you).
Are You a Unique, Special Individual? You're Probably Missing the Basics
Sometimes you don’t want to follow the instructions. The
instructions are for other folks, not you! But if you still aren’t
getting results, maybe it’s time to change things up.
Over the years, we’ve seen myriad guys come and go who struggle with a specific problem. These guys are among the most frustrated folks we see at Girls Chase. Not only are they frustrated themselves, but they frustrate everyone who tries to help them, too.
You see, what they want is a magic pill. They want you to tell them how to do everything you teach guys how to do – only they want you to teach them to do it faster and easier than how you teach all those other guys how to do it.
It doesn’t matter how fast the method you’re teaching is. It could take two weeks to work; they’d still want to know how to do it in four days. When you finally persuade them to put the work in, they take a couple of half-hearted shots at it, all their dreams don’t instantly come true, and they give up. It’s too hard, they’re too unmotivated they say. Then they want you to motivate them. Or, even better, give them some kind of shortcut you haven’t told them about before.
We’ve seen it a lot on the discussion boards. Some of the guys we banned in 2017 were long-time members who kept asking for magic pills, chafing at the suggestion when other members suggested they start with the basics, then whined about how hard it was and how unfair their situations were.
And I wondered to myself: “What the heck is these guys’ problems? Why can’t they just do the work and quit whining about it? Why do they ask for magic pills over and over and over again? They’ve GOT all my stuff – and all everybody else’s stuff – right here on the darn site!”
Sure, there’s a lot of material here, and it can be hard to know
where to start. That’s why we have the quiz and our programs, though. Both of
those are condensed information that takes you through a guided
process. There’s also the newbie assignment on the boards,
which only takes 14 days and a little courage to do.
We have paths for guys who are new and want to start getting results.
But some guys don’t take them – then not only don’t they follow the
paths we’ve laid out for them, but they continue to complain
about not getting results anyway. What’s
going on with people like this?
Well, as it turns out, a piece of scientific research fresh off the presses (published at the end of December) has figured out what’s going on with people who do this.
2017: The Year in Review (Plus What's in Store for 2018)
We review what changed and what content went up in 2017. And we
look forward to what you can expect from Girls Chase throughout the
next year.
Contents
So that’s it. 2017’s a wrap! I hope it’s been an excellent year for you. It’s been another very solid year for Girls Chase. 2018 should be a fairly revolutionary one I think (with article tracks and with One Date – which we’re finally ready to launch – plus more awesome things we’ve got in the works for you)... but we’ll get to that in the second half of this post.
Before we do, we’ll review the year that’s just wrapped, and all the content posted therein.
As in past year-end reviews (2013, 2014, 2015, 2016), we’ll discuss what’s changed this year at Girls Chase. We’ll talk overall posting statistics for you numbers guys. We’ll link you up to some of the best articles of this past year, as judged by comment counts, page views, and editorial opinion.
And then we’ll talk about what’s to come in the next year – our tenth year online.
Let’s plunge in.
You
talk to a girl on a street somewhere and you reach that ‘moment’. She
smiles, you smile. She looks at you with expectation.
