Ah,
threesomes! For many men, having sex with two women at once is
the pinnacle of manliness. Ask any man about his sexual fantasies, and
if he's man enough to admit he has some, you will almost certainly hear
"two chicks at once."
Unfortunately, many men write this off as a possibility, relegating it to the fantasy lands of pornography and science-fiction.
However, I can tell you that not only is it highly realistic, but how to begin having threesomes yourself.
We have a few articles on this site on threesomes already, focusing on meeting two women at once and taking them both home:
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How to Get a Threesome by Cody Lyans
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Threesome How-To: Step-by-Step to Get Two Girls by Alek Rolstad
What I want to talk about today is something a little different -
today's article is on taking a girl you're already seeing, and having a
threesome with her and someone else.
One key thing to understand for this or any threesome is that women have highly intricate, detailed sexual fantasies. They will only discuss them with certain types of men, but when you become that type of man, you will hear several common themes that are repeated over and over again.
One of them is group sex. It is my opinion that nearly every woman on Earth has fantasies that involve two girls and a guy, or a girl and two guys. So that's already in your favor, before we even begin: she's already thought about it.
Further, many women have already experienced threesomes or foursomes. Brave women will act on their fantasies when they feel safe and excited to do so, and that is the purpose of this article: to help her feel safe and exciting to indulge in some of her wildest fantasies.
Comments
That easy? Just point and say
That easy? Just point and say "I wanna do you and her too". Wow, Im guessing tight fundamentals and a "i have done it all, seen it all" look and attitude is key also. This has always been a fantasy but i didn't think girls would be down this easy, does this depend on the type of girl she is? I'm guessing a good girl type will be hesitant to even attempt this.
Hey JB! A couple points. Yes,
Hey JB!
A couple points.
Yes, you are right that solid fundamentals and a "been there done that" attitude will go along way towards ANYTHING you hope to do with a woman, or women. The attitude of experience is paramount, even though when I pulled that particular pick-up off, I had never had a threesome before! It was just a lot of heavy flirting and directness.
As to your second point, I appreciate your bringing those questions into my awareness, and I am going to answer them in the follow-up to this article (my next one)
Cheers!
3 some
I'm no fan of banging 2 girls at the same time but I am into tag teaming a girl which seems more dominant to me. But nice article though. It's still applicable to both ends whether MMF (male, mae female) or FFM.
A little more meat...
Hi Drexel,
I am actually the one who "requested" the article and I have to say the parts about how to get your girlfriend to do a threesome with you (which is not at all an issue for me) are really nice.
However I was really very disappointed when it came to the how to actually do it. I am totally with you on going (somewhat) direct. However there's still a million ways to go about it, just for example is it better
1. If the girl approaches, you approach or you go together?
2. If you go to the club, to dive bars, to upper-class bars ....?
3. To start dancing with the girl or try to go with a direct opener?
Also it would have been nice if you wrote about how to spot girls, that are open and how to handle logistics.
All in all, I felt like this was really more a good article on the topic of "how to get your girlfriend to open up to the idea of a threesome" but not at all an article on "How to have threesomes with your girlfriend". It would be awesome if such an article was to follow or if you could answer the aforementioned concerns in a comment.
Cheers and thank you so much!
Hey Christian! I'm right
Hey Christian! I'm right there with you. As it stands, the article was ALREADY several hundred words longer than it's technically supposed to be, so I had to pick and choose what to include while leaving out a lot of stuff I also wanted to say.
If Chase is cool with it (I'll ask him), I would love to write a follow-up to this article and make it into a two-parter because I totally agree that some of the mechanics did not have room to be included in this piece.
Agree with Christian
Drexel,
This is a great article, but Christian does bring up some good points. I'd love to see a follow-up article to this on some of the methods you've used to actually put yourself in a situation to have a threesome with your girlfriend.
Along with what Christian mentioned, I would also like to know how you handle the aftermath of the situation. For example, you've just had a threesome with your girlfriend and a random stranger... does the other girl usually just politely leave afterward, or do you let her stay over? Or do you judge this based upon what you think your girlfriend will want? Maybe she isn't cool with having the other girl stay over?
Just some additional thoughts! Again, great post. I look forward to more from you.
- Franco
Christian and Franco--all of
Christian and Franco--all of your points and more are answered in the second half of this article, which should be published in the near future.
Thanks for the interest and I hope to see you guys again!
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