Numerous times we’ve covered the fact that women love sex. You’ll hear us on Girls Chase frequently tell you that they like sex as much as men, and if you’re experienced with women, you already know this quite well yourself.
Yet for many men (and even for myself back in the day), this concept doesn’t seem to make much sense. After all, we men are chasing women, or at least constantly trying to figure out ways to meet and get women into bed. It sure doesn’t seem like the opposite is true anyway... at least not when you’re a beginner.
We might ask ourselves the following question: if women liked sex as much as men like sex, wouldn’t they be chasing after men the same as men are chasing after women? Wouldn’t women start approaching men and start trying to get those men over to their places for some hanky-panky?
Wouldn’t women just jump you, begging you to pleasure them?
In this post we’ll cover the many reasons why that is not the case, while still continuing to show you that, in fact, women truly love sex.
Some of the perspectives presented below might already be known to many of you, but I am sure that you will find some nuggets in this posts.
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But if I do not give her
But if I do not give her attention, she will just be like "Nah, who cares about him, this guy gives me attention, let's play with him."
If I am in a situation where I already gave her too much attention, should I just start ignoring her more and more? This is more like a friendzone escape, but I am around this girl a lot of the time because we work together. My plan would be to dial it down, hopefully she sees the difference, without saying anything and I will then start with giving her more attention only if she does something I like.
I think you should make her jealous
Hey Anon,
Alek might not answer your question. And for Chase, this post is not written by him, so I doubt he will reply you as well. I am a GirlChase reader for a very long time so I wanna do my best to help.
I have a friend has the same problem for women playing hard to get, Chase's advice for my friend is using Date Template when you and the girl already know each other very well and she will only consider u as long term (Bf material):
http://www.girlschase.com/content/date-templates-minimize-confusion-maxi...
However, for your situation, I would also consider a jealousy plotline:
http://www.girlschase.com/content/making-girl-jealous-dos-and-donts
Be really careful though, jealousy can backfire and if u do use it, use it subtly. For example, let her see u and other girls talking and flirting should be enough. Also, make sure the girls u are talking to are laughing and having a great time. LOL.
In addition, if that girl has you on Facebook, u can also use facebook. For ex), I tell some of my close female buddies (wingwomen) to flirt with me intentionally on Facebook and the purpose is for the target to notice it. Afterward, I will treat my female buddies lunch, dinner, or snack so this is a fair trade. LOL
Hummmm
That brunette n the bed is the best pic the site has used in a while....
Anyway, my theory on why women are reluctant to spread it around is that it is a question of economics.
In the world of buying and selling the less people that have thing (for example a bottle of wine or an antique) the more valuable it is.
Same applies to a woman and her sex. Women instinctively know this and this is why they have an inbuilt mechanism to resist sex.
This is just my personal theory and I realise it doesn't have wide currency, but for me social pressures don't fully explain a woman resisting her own biological urges so much.
Plus that whole "they have
Plus that whole "they have organs designed specifically and SOLELY for sexual pleasure" thing.
Women love sex far more than men do (at least, if they're getting it right!)
While my opinion on what ASD is differs from most of the Community, this is a well-reasoned article and a great reminder to guys out there that by sleeping with women, you are giving her something she wants.
You don't need to "persuade" her to enjoy sex--she already does!
Sex should be traded for sex only; the guys trying to buy her affections are implicitly saying that her vagina is worth more than their own penis. It isn't!
She likes dick!
Give her some!
my experience is
that women go mainly for sex. they are done with traditional relationships - maybe i see this way because im around with well-off girls who make good money so they dont NEED relationships.
in fact i think they are modern days men
its about sex
If a girl tells you how amazing... Sex she had with 3 guys in her life and puts u on number 3 whilst you still dating the person and I never broke her Virginity what does the mean chase ?
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