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Years ago, one of my fraternity brothers compiled a survey for the rest of the chapter to complete. It was called the “Freaky Deaky Test” and it measured just how freaky you were in bed (or in bathroom closets). And we couldn’t complain, because we had unanimously elected him Freaky Deaky Chair of the fraternity.
What platform did he run on for this esteemed position? Well, he liked to have kinky sex. He would often tell us of his love for licking feet, bondage, girls spitting in his mouth, girls telling him he’s dirty scum while he railed them, etc. It’s the kind of debauchery that most American men would scoff at but secretly jerk off to in their dark rooms at 2 AM.
Around the time of him releasing this survey, I was still green to women and socializing. I’d slept with a handful of girls and was learning game naturally through meticulous trial and error. But I was a sexaholic. My girlfriend kept count of our sex and lost count after 1,000 times. And amongst this marathon of sex, I’d tried all sorts of things: spanking, choking, fucking on her period, putting a finger up her ass, and one of my all-time favorites, cumming on her face (i.e., the money shot).
But like I said, I was still new to the scene. So when I took the test, I only scored around a 7. Definitely not vanilla, but certainly not toe-licking-freaky.
If I wanted to be the man that women fantasized about late at night, I needed to change that score.
I had big shoes to fill, too. Women knew us as THE fraternity to have weird sex with, because our members were historically crazy and deranged.
And so, over the years, me and a few other gentlemen formed an even more select group of men known for their fun sexual habits. After initiating myself into this “Weird Sex Group” (yes, I heard women actually call us this), I had the distinct pleasure of hearing our “Freaky Deaky Chair” admit to me being weirder than him. Hoorah.
I’m still unsure what that says about my mental health, but it’s a testament to how far I’d go to satisfy my gooier lusts.
So, if you wanna transform into a man of this strange caliber, please continue reading (warning: this will be the most graphic article series ever written on Girls Chase).
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what frat brah
what frat brah
Ah my favorite subject :)
Any chance you will talk about the best way of communicating to a girl that you are a man she can show that side of her? I can't exactly rely on my reputation during day game.
Oh For Sure
Don't worry, I gotcha covered, my man.
- Hector
Finnaaaally!
Dude, finally!
I've been waiting for this article FOR AGES! And no one better than Mr. Hector to write it ;)
I was expecting some graphical initiation on this article, but since you only managed to touch into the mindset aspect of things, let me ask you something in that regard that has been on my mind lately.
Read along, I think it will be VERY interesting for you above all people given your views and interests on the subject.
It'll look a little long in this minuscule comment form, but I promise you it isn't that long and worth the read.
Around 10 months ago I was fucking a girl who lived in a fairly small town and, at the time, had only fucked her ex-boyfriend. So I felt like a motherfucker man ordering her around, cumming in her face, slapping her and calling her my slut and stuff like that because it felt like I was an unique, dominating lover because I knew no one had done that to her before.
Then we stopped talking. She moved to a bigger city for university and reached drinking age (18 y/o here) during that time. Then a few months ago she wanted to hookup again, and while fucking her a few days ago I lightly choked her and after we finished she skeptically brought it up and asked if I was into BDSM.
I said yes, and asked what made her ask that, expecting it fully to be the spanking or cumming on her face or something like that. And she says it was the choking which is something that wasn't particularly a big deal for me.
This is how the dialog went:
Me: "after all I did to you, it was the light chocking that made you bring that up?"
Her: "well, everything else is kinda normal" (I didn't expect her to find it that normal)
Me: "so other man had done similar things to you but the chocking?"
Her: "pretty much everything"
Me: "the cumming on your face...?" (still a little bit perplex; I didn't think that many men did that)
Her: "yeah"
She slept with 3 men in a 3-4 months time frame, for reference (which is legit and a fairly normal number in my mind). So it got me thinking two things...
Now, I'll be the first to admit that this girl likes sex a little more than the average, yeah, but she's not a slut per se. She's cute and very quiet, quite slim, but isn't your typical sex-loving slut (she admitted that she feels bad whenever guys don't call her after hooking up, one of the reasons she never had sex directly after a party. It's just a matter of time until she does it, I'd say, though).
Whenever I discuss this with other men, they tend to say that she lied to me about her lovers (unlikely; I established a very non-judgmental lover frame. Needless to say, these men are not very experienced with women nature), that she's an outlier, or any other shit that refuses to accept this as a possible scenario.
Even if they think it's slightly exaggerated, I don't see how a girl that isn't religious, or isn't in LTRs for long periods of time during her 20s, or isn't saving sex for marriage, that go out moderately and is slightly open minded about sex (in other words: a great chunk, possibly the majority, of the female population) could not fuck 50+ dudes by the time she's 30 (that's roughly 4 guys per year... come on).
So I wanted to discuss briefly this with someone I know who'd view this side of women (you) and possibly solve the puzzle about these two points...
Because, as I see it, there's a limit of how dominant you can be without being a crazy rapist. I have no interest in going that far, either. But I want to be a top 5% guy in bed (in my area, at least).
And given the number of partners most girls will generally have by their 30s would quickly make you look like just another one. So is it doable?
Do you think my analysis is correct? If not, where did I fail? And if I didn't, what would put me into the unforgettable top 5%? (I'm guessing you will cover this part later on this series, but I still would find your analysis prior to that interesting)
PS: I hope the html formatting is correct... there's not way to preview before submitting.
Anon
Hey man, mad respect for your bedroom antics! You'd actually be surprised that most men don't do kinky shit, at least at first, unless they're quite experienced. And given the lay count of the average dude, there isn't enough exposure to pussy to draw that dark side out of them. Sure, they may CONSIDER shit and have seen it/jerked off to it on the internet, but most men aren't ballsy enough to do it the first night with a girl or even a few meetups into their relationship.
And then the ones who try it, fuck up. They present it with a weak frame and can't remain steady if she isn't down.
What Not To Do: A guy calls a girl a slut while having sex and she either rebuts it "No I'm not!" or calls him out "Wait, what did you say?" Then the guys stutter or take it back.
What To Do: I was fingerblasting this girl last weekend. She had a boyfriend who was coming to pick her up from the club in half an hour - so back in my room with her, I knew I had to basically cuckhold this kid. I said to her "you can go kiss your boyfriend after I fuck you." She incredulously called me "terrible," but I could see her cracking a smile, so I knew it was bullshit. I maintained eye contact and smiled. Right back to business. Then soon after, I say "you're gonna be a good little fucking slut, aren't you?" She again feigned offense and said "no I'm not!" while smiling and laughing. Didn't even stop me for one heart beat. A few minutes later, I was raw dogging her (not smart, btw).
Most guys take the first route. Hence why even if she had a few lovers who got kinky, it's likely they didn't really dominate her (also, she may have ASKED them to spank her, cum on her face, etc - this is a less dominant frame, too, though it's nice for a girl to show how much she wants to be desecrated).
If you want to outclass all these guys, then keep reading the series ;) And even if what you're doing to her is old hat, it's how rough/dominant you are about it. Best way to gauge this?
How hard is she moaning and shaking. If her moans are porn moans, well, she might be faking. But if they're erratic and you can feel her shaking and losing control of her body (or even see it), then you're rocking her world. Also, if a girl is whimpering and has a look of slight pain/pleasure on her face, that's good. They want to feel like you're Tarzan, just ripping apart their little civilized pussy (and I'm working on a series about doing just this).
Also, your guesses on party girl lay counts is quite accurate actually. A girl who I mention later in the series went from 3 lays (I was her third) to 20 just a year later (she recently touched bases with me to see what my lay count was at). But this was a bit slower than I expected, so I guessed that she was
1. Trying to keep her sluttiness DL (she maintains a very "good girl" persona at school)
2. Potentially scouting a relationship (women will get into a relationship just to "reset" their reputation)
She confirmed both my theories were true :) So she slowed the dick-train for reputation reasons. Otherwise, she'd be passing me up pretty quickly.
So my guess on your girl? Could be a lot of things, but my guess is she didn't know the term BDSM, but found out after casually doing it with her new partners; now she's looking back and going "ohhhh, that's what it was."
Or it could be something much more convoluted, mysterious than that. You can never know 100%, but you guess more accurately as you catch girls lying or even get confessions out of them (I've had girls admit some pretty dirty shit to me that I didn't expect). Reference points.
But my guess is it's just her putting names to something she was already doing.
- Hector
Hot Girls
Hot girls, most of the time, have dated and/or fucked a few really fucking cool dominant lover type guys. Just the way it is!
Only a piece of the Sexual Pie?
Hey Hector!
I'm looking forward to this series; expecting a mindfuck of an experience.
Buuuuuut,
I understand that sex for women is an emotional experience, so of course doing freaky deaky shit will thrill, arouse, and do all that other good stuff to her.
Yet, what about before you're in the bedroom? I've had some epic adventures and situational scenarios with girls I've bedded that set up dominant sex as the peak of the emotional crescendo.
I think you have that part down, as your reputation certainly served as food for girls' imaginations and you're vibe I imagine is fun and adventurous outside of the bedroom as well.
So I'd like to know how you address that or incorporate it or even if you think it is relevant. (I think so, imagine vanilla sex with joe shmoe and vanilla sex with a famous rock star; obviously the emotional experience will be quite different.)
Either way,
I'm shaking with anticipation waiting for the next article haha.
-JW
Adventure as Foreplay
Hey J Wick!
I'm honestly a very impatient guy, so I get to sex ASAP. This has lead me to lose quite a few girls I would have gotten if I'd been more patient and worked them up, but it's also gotten me some of the quickest lays I've ever heard of anyone doing, even faster than my most skilled natural buddies. I'm actually training myself to slow down escalations, ironically. It's not an issue for 99% of guys, but I've always had the inclination to move TOO fast.
But adventure is a good aphrodisiac. Reputation (like mine or, on a much grander scale, a rock star's) certainly bypasses the need for it, since she's thinking "oh my god, I've been fantasizing about him forever! Finally I get his cock!"
If you don't have that reputation, however, you do many things
- Bring a girl to the edge of auto-rejection then pull her back in just before she storms away (e.g., teasing a girl hard but then qualifying her and/or apologizing before she leaves then taking her to bed). This is how jerks work, fundamentally.
- Foreplay outside of the bedroom; but this is only viable if you're advanced
- Tease her about sex and then get her to beg for it; I've gotten super inexperienced girls to do this (even those who play the "good girl" card with everyone else); you gotta have a very dominant personality for this
- Have a very deep emotional connection with someone; deep diving naturally brings this out. If she brings up a sensitive but still inspiring comment (e.g., her father not being a stable figure but coming back into her life and her rebuilding the relationship), she'll feel VERY close to you and the sex will destroy the bed.
Hope this helps!
- Hector
Hey man, im at a large public
Hey man, im at a large public uni. now and im noticing thats its REALLY easy to get laid, you barely need any game haha. Would you recommend learning it now, or waiting till i get out, cuz i wanna be great with women ALWAYS but im having no problem getting laid now. Thanks, youre the fucking man
You Answered Your Own Question
You should start now, of course! What else are you going to do? I was quite into academics, Greek life, Intramurals, and still managed to party my ass off almost every other day. You have so much free time and I can't imagine a better focus than getting good with people and women.
Also,
1. Are you sleeping with the quality of women you want?
2. Are you sleeping with the quantity of women you want?
3. Are you the most badass version of yourself that you can imagine at your age?
If you answer "no" to any of these, probably start working on game.
- Hector
Porn for women
Just find it strange that most of the porn women watch features none of this stuff. They like to watch the sensual stuff and experience the naughty stuff?
Hah
I don't think you know what porn women are watching, my friend.
http://www.pornhub.com/insights/women-gender-demographics-searches
- Hector
Finally!
I was waiting sooo long to see a post from you Hector! I even asked Chase in one of his posts
when we shall be seeing you man!
I have began my journey on becoming a genuine man and I hope you can answer those questions for me!
1. How do I get started with the asshole behavior without coming off as a try
hard?
2. Assuming you are a beginner, what do you do when you meet another arrogant man? How do you take him down?
3. And does being arrogant mean going around to look for trouble or just be an asshole when it is needed?
Hope you can answer them man!
Upcoming Article and A Few Tips
Hey Anon!
I actually am working on another article on being genuine. There are a few cool observations I've noticed now almost a year into the transition. It won't be up for a while but look forward to it; it'll be the final nail in the coffin of the jerk.
But for now, here's a few tips
1. You don't
2. I covered how to handle other jerks in the 9th article of the series (http://www.girlschase.com/content/genuine-man-part-9-nice-jerk). But if you're really really new, just back off and watch how he operates. Or, challenge him anyways. Getting stomped is a great learning tool for any skill.
3. The latter, but also when you WANT to (sometimes I'd stir up shit just for fun)
Good luck on your journey!
- Hector
Hector, you're fucking great!
Hector, you're fucking great!
Thanks!
I appreciate it, amigo!
- Hector
Hey man. So colt said game
Hey man. So colt said game isn't really needed for college just leadership, you feel as if i should study it? cuz you've said college is a great training grounds for a seducer so i'm kinda confused haha. I go to a large public uni btw
"Leadership"
Leadership is a very broad term.
Deep-diving is leadership. You direct the flow of conversation and qualify her throughout by having her expose her personality to you.
Fundamentals are leadership; you draw her into you.
I've just walked up to women, grabbed their hand, and lead them somewhere, but that usually was preceded by conversation and/or a really obvious sign of interest (e.g., her yelling "Hector!").
Recognizing and acting on cues might suffice for a full definition of game haha.
Next time you're attracted to a "just do THIS" mentality, ask yourself - what does THIS mean? Usually it's an umbrella term encompassing many behaviors.
- Hector
I so badly want to be a freak, but…
it can be a tall order for a man who foolishly trained himself to feel enormous guilt over his sexual desires. Thank you for this article, Hector—it is exactly the confirmation a guy like me needs to hear. The last girl I took to bed actually accused me of faking at one point, which because it was true, put us in a terribly awkward position. I immediately re-doubled my efforts and finally made her moan like my little bitch after that point. Raw, unbridled passion works wonders when you get desperate enough. As the Sith code says: peace is a lie—there is only passion. I know Chase talks about becoming the zen lover, but for now, I need the dark side (probably a necessary phase).
I know women want to be fucked like little sluts and made to submit—most men don't have half the testosterone necessary to provide that. Hence, I made it my primary mission to transform my body physically, so that I could become that man for real.
Oddly, I've had to rely on juvenile fantasy like movie clips of violent action that get my blood pumping. Early Eminem is my new favorite for lifting and intense HIIT cardio, both of which pull me through depression and power me through my workouts. I love your emphasis on embracing the "dark side." Lately, I've been doing a lot of reading on the Church of Satan website, as I think the figure or Satan and Loki have much in common: the necessary yin to the yang of man made systems—the unavoidable absurdity produced from the attempt at perfecting a social structure.
I love your articles Hector, and I follow this site religiously—the work you all do here has been life-changing for me, and I hope my little personal "reports" may add some value for others to take away.
-M
One more thing…
You said, "Now if I’m seeing the dirty side of these ultra conservative women, imagine how freaky the women are who don’t restrain themselves because of religious devotions?"
In my opinion (from my own personal experience with having restricted my own sexuality), both formerly conservative men and women likely gush to the opposite extreme once they finally let go—there's just so much pent up tension and emotion.
-M
What's the deal with butt stuff?
I understand the concept of "taboo" but its pretty normal nowadays.
It doesn't turn me on like other dominance moves like choking, spanking, bondage, dirty talk, daddy/daughter roleplay, manhandling her, etc.
In the past I've fucked a girl in the ass more than once, but have no interest in it at all now.
What's the appeal?
So how I feel about it is why
So how I feel about it is why do I have to do all this nasty shit to get a loyal woman. I'm just not into all that "calling her a slut" "slapping her around" type nonsense. I mean, where does the line get drawn? I don't really want to hurt people. Maybe there's something wrong with my mindset? It just seems kind of evil.
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