
This is for reasonably experienced guys. Newer guys will struggle with making this effective, I believe – it might even backfire. But for guys who are reasonably adept with women – if girls are easily attracted to you, if you’re good at getting them to follow your lead, if you have sex with different girls on a somewhat regular basis – this is something you want to read.
Referencing scientific research here, but I’m not one to be politically correct anyway, sooo… let’s talk about objectifying women.
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Hey Chase, I decided to read
Hey Chase, I decided to read some of your old stuff just to see what sort of stuff changed and what stayed the same. I'm just curious if you still think that objectifying women can help game. I've done it before, and when I get in this mindset I've pretty much forgotten about rejection. The moral aspect is questionable though, and even though I don't pay attention to it because in MY experience acting uninhibited like this excited women more, some people may find problems with it. All in all, is this still a major mindset you have?
Thanks man
Objectification
Hey Hunt,
Yeah, it's strong stuff, huh?
I'll use this one still if I need a kick in the pants for motivation. It's hard to maintain through a conversation though, because it's very difficult to simultaneously objectify and engage in meaningful conversation. So it's more something I'll switch on at times to get going where needed, switch off for most of the interaction, and then switch back on again when I want to start ramping up sexual tension. At that point, you're letting the conversation die out more and more and the tension build up more and more, so it's okay to cut back on conversing and bring yourself into a mating mindset.
Chase
This really does work!
Hey Chase,
Long time, fan first time commenter... just wanted to say everything you write about is backed up by scientific research and through experience. I experienced this article first hand. I had a first date with this really attractive girl I had met and the date was going well and I was really laying on the charm, checking her out and really just taking charge. At one point in the date she turned to me and flat out said "I can tell you really want to have sex with me"... I was kind of stunned, I thought uh oh did I just give away my game, do I deny? Do I admit? I simply looked her in the eye and gave her a sensuous smile. She was right I wanted to have sex with her and I wondered if her finding out was going to help or hurt my chances of getting with her. Well... less than an hour later the opportunity presented itself and we had sex. I strongly believe her knowing I wanted to have sex with her helped my chances of having sex with her. Her knowing I really wanted her made her want me more in return. Glad I found this website and article! Great stuff!!
- Chris
I was in a similar position.
Hey, Chris, I was in a similar situation once; but wasn't successful that time. Out of curiosity, I want to know what did you say to her afterwards? How did it develop? I might learn a thing of two.
Question.
Hay trhere, i wanted to present my particular case. I once Was a very confident, charming, sexual and flirting man i had no thing to worry about my sexual succes. But aprox 2 years ago i started reading this kind of stuff and conscious programing etc etc. But since i started i got a fucking obsesion that im becoming a looser and that same fucking idea has kept me of beeing more succes full as a man by focusing on how a looser would act speak etc, this has changed me a lot. Im having a bad time, now i dont get to be as sexual, confident and assertive as i considered i Was. I get some times to notice myself proyecting a bad energy not sexual or social. Asking this kind of shit makes me feel weard. Any advice?
about to burst my brains
This stuff works for me, at the same time it backfires as I am not as experienced as I need to be to phase between non sexual look and the seX objects look. As such, I feel like I would burst with apprehension that I could pick up these cute girls but with lagging skills, it just flops and am left with a hard-on I would rather have used than kept till daybreak.
Damn!
This post has pumped me up!
This post has pumped me up! Going out to meet some women now! Thanks Chase!
Latino angle
Hi Chase, I like your article and can see how being polite and politically correct is a sign of weakness that only strong, unapologetic males dare to ignore, the kind women love. I have a question about applying this to Latin America, where I live. Here, the average man is already operating the way you describe. This changes the playing field, since women are very used to men giving them horny vibes, and it's not very attractive to them, I believe. I almost feel as if it's the other way around: here, a high-value man would NOT be looking at her in a horny way (because he has other, hotter options than her), while a low-value man would.
Or maybe this changes depending on the moment of the interaction (on the street or just meeting vs. after interacting a bit). In any case, would love to know any insights you have on how this plays out in Latino culture with a different average of how men and women operate. Thanks.
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