Articles by Author: Chase Amante
“Get Laid On Tinder” System: What Should We Include?
All right gents, it’s been a while coming, but we’re nearly ready with Colt’s Tinder system. Apologies for the delays – I know everybody wanted this YESTERDAY, but I’ve been trying to ensure that when we get this one out, we make it good, we make effective… and we do it with style.
2014: The Year in Review + Top 64 Posts, & Passing the Torch
The year’s drawing to a close, and like we did last year this time, I’d like to review this year’s top posts... both in my own humble opinion, and judging by the interest from comments and social shares.
2014 saw 268 articles (well, 270, including this one and Cody’s piece on meeting women on New Year’s that goes up tomorrow) written by 15 different contributors (several with only one to three articles, but many with a whole lot more). Leading the charge were:
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Hector Castillo’s 4 articles on getting girls in college and the power of ‘alone’
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Darius Belejevas’s 5 articles on sexy attire for summer and winter alike
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Halvor Jannike’s 6 scribings on revamping your mind and approach
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Drexel Scott’s 7 pieces on attitudes toward women and being a man
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J.J. Jones’s 7 articles on making things happen fast and taking them sexual
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Ross Leon’s 15 articles on getting your mind right and getting women bought in
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Cody Lyans’s 24 meditations on being intriguing, seductive, and romantic
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Alek Rolstad’s 33 pieces on fast sex, sexuality, and cultural norms
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Colt Williams’s 49 articles on women’s minds, cougars, and next level seduction
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And my (Chase Amante’s) 112 articles on mindsets, seduction, and relationships
... not to mention a contribution apiece from Eric Reeves, Ethan Fierre, Robert Hortzclaw, and Sarah Williams (that last not so popular), and two from Will Legend.
(the author links above link to each writer’s catalog of articles)
Also, I’m going to use this post to talk about plans for Girls Chase for the New Year, and what you can expect to see this 2015 – we’ll do that at the bottom, after the article review here.
How to Handle Confrontational Women and Scenarios
On the Girls Chase forums, one of our members named Godsninja shared a sticky situation he found himself in after getting an unpleasant response from a girl he’d traded numbers with and planned to set up a date with. Here’s the gist of it (full post here):
“I got her number and a few days later followed up with our date plan.
I don’t believe I got a text back from her, but I did get a text from another number claiming to be her fiance. Keep in mind this was several months ago, so I don’t remember how the text conversation went, but I remember I was very assertive, and after a few texts back and forth (finding out her fiance is a she), we stopped texting. I stopped texting cuz there wasn’t really a point.
It wasn’t anything serious, kind of awkward, but funny. It started out a little serious but I think I remember suggesting we all have a date together bahah.
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I was sitting in my car a few hours later and got a text message from an unknown number (her supposed fiance) telling me that I’m an idiot, a stalker, and that she is “gun a go tell/call the cops”, so I told her to go fuck herself because she doesn’t know shit about me, and to come out to the parking lot to ‘talk’. She then reminded me that she was a girl, and I told her she would probably end up kicking my ass anyway. I told her I was really sweaty, and that I’m a good kisser, but I won’t tell anybody. She never replied so I sent a last text telling her not to text me anymore.
After the weekend I got an email telling me I had to attend a non-optional meeting with the Manager of Student Rights and Responsibility. I was reported for intimidation and sexual harassment.”
In this case, this was a pretty unfair situation for GN – he made his approach, took a phone number to set up a date, then got into a nasty text exchange from an unknown number by some person claiming to be this girl’s ‘fiancé’ whom he suspects was actually a female friend or acquaintance of this girl he’d approached.
When he ran into the girl again a semester later, he greeted her, knowing she was familiar but not knowing who she was. As soon as he remembered, he laughed about it, and, not wanting to get sucked back in, bid her adieu.
A few hours later, he received a highly confrontational text message – and then took the bait and got into a texting battle. In the end, the ‘fiancé’ (or whoever s/he was) reported him for ‘harassment’ to the university, railroading his focus and studies – he got off with a warning, but the instigators of the whole thing (the other two people) saw no consequences themselves whatsoever.
Situations like this are rare – you can approach 1,000 girls a year and something like this will only happen to you once or twice, maybe.
However, how you deal with such scenarios can make all the difference between letting awful people like this have a really bad, negative impact on your life, and preventing them from having any meaningful impact at all.
What to Do When She Gets Back in Touch
Was chatting with J.J. yesterday about girls contacting you out of the blue with a, “Hey, what’s up! How are you? We should get drinks/coffee and catch up!” message, and what this means / the right way to play it.
These contacts – whether by text, phone, social media, email, or what have you – out of the blue always seem exciting; they’re like free dates (or even a free hook up, if you’re imagining far enough ahead).
You get them and it’s, “All right! Score! This girl wants me bad!”
And then... much of the time after you reply, you never end up meeting her.
All that initial enthusiasm she had to reconnect with you simply dies down and peters out.
That might seem irritating, or mysterious, or downright vexing to you – “Who can understand a woman?” you might say.
But it all has to do with those little things called ‘intrigue’ and ‘investment’, and what happens when you have too little of them – or, how things play out when you have enough.