Dealing with Social Friction, Part 2: Reevaluation w/ the 3 Rs
Mar 31, 2025
When you encounter heavy friction socially, don’t just keep plowing. Instead, stop and reevaluate with the 3 Rs so you’ll know just what to do next.
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Mar 31, 2025
When you encounter heavy friction socially, don’t just keep plowing. Instead, stop and reevaluate with the 3 Rs so you’ll know just what to do next.
Dedicated student of the game Kvothe shares his journey to seduction success as our Skilled Seducer of the Month for May 2024.
When you are “in the field” with women, it pays to be able to adapt your girl-getting strategies on the fly. Savvy strategic calibration helps you do this.
If you go out but you’re not able to pick up girls, why? It’s probably not what you think (looks, money, status, etc.). Instead, it is something ELSE.
Everybody wants to learn to do better. Yet some of the ways we can think about learning actually impede our progress – even while we THINK they HELP!
Not sure if a girl you’re talking to is into you? Want to find out a quick, fun, and easy way? Use a touch test! It’s like a compliance test – with touch!
Reward girls to encourage helpful behavior you like. Punish them to discourage unhelpful behavior you dislike. Do both to make your love life much easier.
As you analyze your outings once you are out of the field, don’t forget these additional variables: the social frame of the venue, your mood, and more.
After a night (or day) out in the field, you need to review your outing to see what worked – and didn’t. Focus on these key variables for the biggest improvements.
When you go out to pick up girls, sometimes you succeed, and sometimes you fail. How do you extract the lessons from that? One way is via post-field diagnostics.
How hard is it to cold approach girls and get success with them – REALLY? Is it impossible… very difficult… or actually easier than many believe?
Dig into how Bloom pulls off his thrilling same-day day game lays. Inventive sexual framing and shrewd sniper-style approaches rule the day when Bloom approaches.
When you run into a girl you know socially at a bar, club, or party, you may want to pick her up. But first, you must check whether conditions are RIPE…
A ‘no-spiral’ is a way to get a girl to undermine her own objection – by getting her to say “no” to one absurd question about her objection after another.
