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As a follow up to my last article from a couple of weeks ago on How to Sext & Get Racy Photos from Her (in Only 3 Texts) –and supplemental reading to Chase’s article on the subject of “Booty Calling” – this one will also focus on another “text to sex” method that you can use once you’ve reached (at least) an intermediate skill level with women.
As most of you hopefully know, we rarely recommend using texting for anything more than just setting up logistics, the reason being that texting as a communication medium is so impersonal that it just generally doesn't lend itself well to instilling the type of emotion(s) in a woman that you’re able to in person.
In the case of sexting and exchanging racy photos, we’re breaking that rule a tad (but for good reason). However, in this scenario, logistics is exactly the reason. To setup a booty call.
Comments
Time limit to booty call relationships?
Let's say you had a booty call relationship with a girl but you haven't hooked up in some time. Nothing negative happened, just neither person has reached out to the other.
Can you still ping her? Is there a time limit where the booty call relationship is "over"? 2 weeks, a month, 6 months?
RE: Time limit to booty call relationships?
Kael,
Typically these only last a few months at most. I've had a couple of casual sex relationships last up to almost two years, but that's very rare. Either you guys end up in a relationship, or she meets someone else who can offer her a relationship if you're not willing or able to. Women eventually need someone to fill that provider role long-term, while lovers are more novelty and tend to come and go.
Hope that answers your question!
J.J.
Booty Call to Girlfriend
What's a good way to transition a booty call into a relationship? Or is it better to set relationship expectations with another girl after seduction?
RE: Booty call to girlfriend
JP,
Yes, you can definitely turn a booty call girl into a girlfriend! However, the onus is on her to initiate any talks that might lead toward a relationship. Remember: men chase sex, women chase relationships. If you're giving her a lot of good sex and there's a good mutual connection, then there's a very good chance she'll eventually ask you for a committed relationship.
Hope that helps, man!
J.J.
Female models. Girlfriends or pros?
Just curious JJ - are these girls that model in your article photos professionals or are they girls that you are sleeping with/female friends who help out? If so, big respect ;)
What to send as a ping message
What do you send as a ping message?
Do you send "Hey, whatchadoin? :)"?
Keep it Cool
Hey Kael,
I would strongly advise not sending women these types of messages. These are the types of messages that girls send. Men should should not be sending these types of messages. These are the messages that women see and immediately think, "He has nothing better to do than text me."
A ping message would be, "Hey Jane, hope your week was good. :)"
The difference between the messages is I'm just seeing how she was. I'm wishing her good feelings. It doesn't come off as desperate and that I'm keeping tabs on her. It's a message that she feels like she doesn't have to respond to. A long with that its a message that she doesn't have to carry the conversation. If a girl replies to your message it will likely be a one word message. When a girls receives a message like the one I sent, it leaves room for responses. Maybe she had a hard week and wants relax. You could use this to set up a date.
Maybe she had an awesome week and can't wait for the weekend. She's probably curious about your week. You want to get her imagination going. "Hmm . . . I wonder what Dave has been up to? Why is Dave so happy today?" Keep all that in mind when sending a ping. What I mean is text a woman with a purpose. Don't make her wonder why you're texting. Let her know exactly why you're texting her.
Hope that helps,
Just Dave
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