Sometimes you don’t want to follow the instructions. The
instructions are for other folks, not you! But if you still aren’t
getting results, maybe it’s time to change things up.
Over the years, we’ve seen myriad guys come and go who struggle with
a specific problem. These guys are among the most frustrated folks we
see at Girls Chase. Not only are they frustrated themselves, but they
frustrate everyone who tries to help them, too.
You see, what they want is a magic pill. They want you to tell them
how to do everything you teach guys how to do – only they want you to
teach them to do it faster and easier
than how you teach all those other
guys how to do it.
It doesn’t matter how fast the method you’re teaching is. It could
take two weeks to work; they’d still want to know how to do it in four
days. When you finally persuade them to put the work in, they take a
couple of half-hearted shots at it, all their dreams don’t instantly
come true, and they give up. It’s too
hard, they’re too unmotivated they say. Then they want you to motivate
them. Or, even better, give them some kind of shortcut you haven’t told
them about before.
We’ve seen it a lot on the discussion boards.
Some of the guys we banned in 2017 were long-time members who kept
asking for magic pills, chafing at the suggestion when other members
suggested they start with the basics, then whined about how hard it was
and how unfair their situations were.
And I wondered to myself: “What the heck is these guys’ problems?
Why can’t they just do the work
and quit whining about it? Why do they ask for magic pills over and
over and over again? They’ve GOT all my stuff – and all everybody
else’s stuff – right here on the darn site!”
Sure, there’s a lot of material here, and it can be hard to know
where to start. That’s why we have the quiz and our programs, though. Both of
those are condensed information that takes you through a guided
process. There’s also the newbie assignment on the boards,
which only takes 14 days and a little courage to do.
We have paths for guys who are new and want to start getting results.
But some guys don’t take them – then not only don’t they follow the
paths we’ve laid out for them, but they continue to complain
about not getting results anyway. What’s
going on with people like this?
Well, as it turns out, a piece of scientific research fresh off the
presses (published at the end of December) has figured out what’s going
on with people who do this.
